She had to look a long time before she noticed something unusual in the photo.
Recently on the social network Xiaohongshu, a woman named Hoa Lan from Hebei, China attracted attention when she posted a photo taken from behind the bedroom scene. At this time, her husband was playing with their 6-year-old daughter.
Photo of father and daughter...
Accordingly, the mother-in-law was the one who took the photo and sent it to her via Wechat, saying: "The little girl kept asking her father to play horse riding before going to bed. She was very happy, kept smiling, and her father also indulged her. That made her less tired for a day" , when her daughter-in-law was visiting her parents' house for a few days.
Hoa Lan left her two children, one 6 years old and one 3 years old, for her grandmother to take care of because her maternal home was quite far away and there was an important matter.
“I kept looking at the photo and laughing. My child is so naughty. However, when I looked closely, even zooming in on the photo, I saw that my husband was holding a phone in his hand. He was very attentive, as if he was reading something. It must be something important, why is he so tense?” Ha Lan wondered.
Zoom in and see my husband is on his phone replying to work messages.
At this time, her mother-in-law texted that her husband had been sleeping until 1-2 am these past few days. And today was no exception, but he still took the time to play with his daughter because she was so hungry.
“He said he just got a new job, the company is also busy with a new project so he is very busy. At 10pm, I still see him scratching his head in the office. There was a day when he came home without taking a shower, and had to eat a bowl of rice in a hurry, but it took him 30 minutes to finish because he had to eat and work at the same time. It is true that now, being an employee, everything comes to hand,” the mother-in-law texted her daughter-in-law.
Hoa Lan pretended not to know what her mother-in-law told her and texted her husband to ask how he was doing. She heard him complaining that he had to stay up late again today because of a deadline. “The boss texted me to fix it right away because tomorrow the customer needs it. But Linh Nhi keeps asking me to play with her, so I have to be a horse for her to ride and work at the same time, ” Hoa Lan recalled her husband’s words.
She said her husband had previously worked as a manager at an interior design company, with a stable income, and had also invested in a few other projects that also brought in a decent amount of money. They both had a house in the city, and lived with her mother-in-law. So she quit her job to be a housewife.
However, in the past 2 years, Hoa Lan’s husband, Duc Bao (40 years old), has been caught in a wave of layoffs and unemployment. After a long time of not being able to apply for a position that matches his abilities. “Nowadays, many people under 30 are very good. Although my husband has a lot of experience, he is limited by his age, so it is very difficult,” she added.
Illustration photo.
So, for the past 5 months, Duc Bao has returned to work as an employee for a newly opened interior design company. The salary is only 1/3 of what it was before, but the effort is incredibly high. In addition, Duc Bao still has to take on some outside jobs to earn extra income.
The pressure of life is on the husband when the two young children have to pay for school and monthly living expenses, her family also lost a large amount of money in the first investment of the year. Her mother-in-law has an old age disease and needs money for monthly medical check-ups.
“Sometimes I wonder what my husband is doing in his middle age? A job that makes him tired every day. Many days he comes home late, exhausted after finishing work at 9pm. However, I and perhaps he don’t dare to quit. Even though we are tired, we still have money to cover our monthly living expenses. Moreover, our future is still very long, and our children are still young, so we have to try harder,” Hoa Lan shared.
Because she has been at home for many years, Hoa Lan has had a harder time finding a job. So, about a year ago, when her second daughter started kindergarten, she applied for a part-time job as a maid or online sales person to earn extra income.
In addition, she also goes online or learns from people around her about how to cut spending and save effectively.
However, because she is busy with work, she does not have as much time to spend with her children as before. "That is also the shortcoming and mistake of parents, which needs to be improved after I saw the above photo," Hoa Lan added.
The post quickly attracted a lot of attention from netizens. Many people said they were in a similar situation to Hoa Lan's family.
Even more pitiful, she wrote that she had to rent a room and could not find a job, and was considering returning to her hometown early because she could not “stay” in the city. The burden of making a living also makes many parents have no time to take care of their children, sometimes becoming grumpy. Therefore, through the image and story of Hoa Lan’s family, many people also encourage themselves to overcome this difficult time and care more about their small family.
“My husband has been working as a delivery man for a month now. Although it is hard work, it is considered to have extra income. He also does not have time to play with the children like before. By the time he gets home, it is already 10-11 pm.”
“The storm of layoffs is really scary. My family is luckier because we have two stores that are still operating, but it is still very difficult. We are planning to move back to our hometown soon”, “But you are lucky to have a good husband and his family. Take that as motivation and appreciate it more”,… are comments from netizens.
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