GĐXH - When we reach 50, we have a house, a car and savings. But don't think that this is enough. You must understand the 7 things below to live happily in your later years.
1. Saving
When you are young, you often try to work hard and earn a lot of money. You earn but you cannot save.
But at 50, the children are grown, the burden is lighter and you are not long from retirement.
At this point, saving is more important than earning and having a deposit is the wisest way to live.
After all, when people get old and have no money in their pockets, they will not feel secure, let alone happy.
With savings, you have the power to choose and live the life you want.
So, before 50 years old, earning money is a responsibility to the family. After 50 years old, saving is a responsibility to yourself.
Start saving now and accumulate more, later when you are old, you will definitely thank yourself.
After all, when people get old and have no money in their pockets, they will not feel secure, let alone happy. Illustration photo
2. Stay away from debt
For middle-aged people over 50 years old, do not easily create long-term debts.
Some middle-aged people do not understand that their children need to buy a house to get married, and their parents, if they can, should help their children with part of the money to buy a house.
Nowadays when jobs are more difficult, family members all have to try to work.
But some middle-aged people borrow money to spend on unnecessary things, which means their families will have to work harder to pay off the debt.
Don't think that just because the person who lent you money is old and gone, the loan won't have to be paid back.
Nowadays, debts owed to fathers are paid by sons, debts owed to sons are paid by grandchildren, this can be passed down through generations. So don't borrow money carelessly and harm your children and grandchildren.
When you are in your fifties, it is best to live a gentle, simple life with few desires, so that you can peacefully reach the end of this life.
3. Spend more time with loved ones
In ancient times, women considered their husbands as everything, until they encountered marital problems, they fell into depression and disappointment because of their spouses.
Of course, in today's era, women are much more mentally independent and less emotionally dependent on men.
However, that does not mean you should be indifferent or look down on your partner. Whether you are a man or a woman, you need to respect your partner.
A good marriage is when husband and wife together overcome the storms and watch the light of dawn.
Money is just ephemeral, children grow up and have their own lives, only then will you understand the role of your partner.
Don't lose your relationship, love your spouse with all your heart, and overcome all difficulties together.
4. "Three senses" are more important than "five senses"
When a person reaches 50, his hair gradually turns gray, and his wrinkles become longer and more obvious. But as he grows older, he will see more clearly about life. After the age of fifty, a person's "three views" are more important than his "five views".
The three views are made up of three elements: world view, outlook on life and values. The five senses refer to the five parts of the human face including eyes, nose, mouth, ears and eyebrows.
People in their 50s value thinking and awareness over appearance. First is the concept of age: if you don't think about getting old, you won't get old. Age is not defined by a number but a state of mind.
Second, the concept of fame and wealth: learn to let go. The first half of your life is devoted to fame and wealth, only caring about glory and wealth. When you get old, you will realize that fame and wealth are like smoke, wealth and wealth are like clouds, living freely is the truth in life.
Third is the philosophy of life: little material but rich heart. The more a person pursues superficial things, the more easily tired he is. Subtract life, add heart, that is the best state of life.
5. Stop wasting your health
After 50 years old, maintaining good health is not only good for yourself but also shows responsibility to your family.
Just like growing food, relying on hands alone is not enough, we also need to bring clean water to irrigate and use rich fertilizers to increase nutrients.
Just keep working hard, but the tree will absorb all the water and nutrients, become barren, low yield, lose more than gain.
The body is the soil for growth, and health is the best nutrition. Go to bed early and wake up early, exercise regularly, eat 3 meals a day with appropriate amounts.
Maintaining good living habits and a healthy lifestyle is more important than anything else.
Remember, only by learning how to save energy can you live a peaceful life worth living.
6. Don't wait
True happiness in life is knowing how to seize the opportunity right now. For those over 50, please do not wait for the so-called "best opportunity".
If you should rest, then rest. If you want to travel, then travel. If you want to do something, then do it immediately, don't delay.
You don't have to pursue fame all your life, take the time and energy to enjoy life.
True happiness lies not in the eyes of others, in the past or the future, but in the present. Life is what we create.
If you should rest, then rest. If you want to travel, then travel. If you want to do something, then do it immediately, don't delay. Illustration photo
7. Reading is more important than speaking
Perhaps in your youth you liked to talk big about how much you knew. In your old age, you may discover that "it is better to learn modestly than to speak eloquently."
No matter how much you talk, it only adds to the chaos, disturbs the peace of others, and delays your own absorption.
The best way to enrich yourself is to shut up, talk less, read and educate yourself more.
Especially after 50, many people understand that "reading more makes people hate less". The more you read, the more clear-headed you become and the more you can resolve problems in life.
Reading may not change your destiny, but it will definitely help you meet a better you.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/sau-tuoi-50-muon-song-an-nhien-hanh-phuc-con-tuy-thuoc-vao-ban-co-nhan-ra-7-dieu-quan-trong-nay-hay-khong-172241202161842367.htm
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