Elite people who still have these 8 low EQ habits, no matter how well they do, will not be appreciated

GĐXH - Chinese businessman Ly Tuong once warned his employees: "Intelligence is just IQ. Only when there is cooperation with EQ can intelligence be demonstrated."

This is the difference, highlighting a person's wisdom in dealing with relationships. Below are 8 habits that show low EQ, avoid these behaviors to easily conquer relationships.

1. Easily irritated

Because they struggle to understand and control their emotions, people with low EQ are prone to emotional outbursts and violent reactions.

Meanwhile, they don't understand how they really feel and why they are so upset.

Sudden, sometimes excessive, and uncontrollable emotional outbursts are not uncommon in people with low EQ.

Because they struggle to understand and control their emotions, people with low EQ are prone to emotional outbursts and violent reactions. Illustration photo

2. High achiever but perfectionist

Intelligent people tend to achieve a lot, especially when in an environment that allows for growth.

But if they have low EQ, they will get caught up in very small details, like a perfectionist.

Perfectionism can slow down productivity, make them stressed, and make it difficult to work with others.

3. Like to argue and win or lose

There is a type of person in life who is always extremely arrogant. No matter what you say, they are always the first to object.

They never seem to consider whether their words are appropriate or not. As long as they can make the other person "speechless", they will be proud and show off their eloquence.

However, this approach did not win them the respect they expected, but rather dissatisfaction and contempt.

As American politician Benjamin Franklin said: "If you are competitive, good at arguing and like to refute others, you can win quickly. However, this kind of victory is meaningless because you will never win the favor of others."

We must understand that human communication is not a contest of winning or losing.

Making concessions at the right time can win the other party's trust and favor. Being soft-spoken and willing to take losses is wisdom in life.

In life, there is a type of person who is always extremely arrogant. No matter what you say, they are always the first to object. Illustration photo

4. Only know yourself when chatting

In conversations, people with low EQ often get caught up in presenting their own point of view without letting others speak.

Even when asking questions and appearing to listen, they always find a way to turn things back on themselves.

If someone confides or tells a story, they often show that they already know it, have experienced it...

5. They struggle with relationships

People with low EQ often have very few close friends.

This is because close friendships require mutual give and take, emotional sharing, compassion, and emotional support, all traits that people with low EQ often lack.

Instead, they come off as rude and insensitive.

6. Working hard but neglecting self-care

Highly intelligent people tend to be very interested in ongoing projects and can pursue them tirelessly.

However, people with low EQ think that to work effectively, they must sacrifice their physical and mental health.

They work late into the night to complete a task, while skipping meals and sacrificing sleep.

A straightforward person only cares about himself and doesn't put anyone else in his eyes. Illustration photo

7. Too blunt

"I'm being straightforward, I hope you don't mind", "I'm straightforward but not mean"...

There are always some people who pride themselves on being straightforward and consider themselves to be "sharp-tongued and kind-hearted".

But in fact, the so-called frankness is actually just an unwillingness to care about other people's feelings.

A straightforward person always only cares about himself and doesn't put anyone in his eyes.

They think they are right but in fact they are cruel and ruthless, causing others to suffer.

In everyday life, many close relationships are ruined by these trivial words.

We should maintain more empathy and think of others, so that our words become warm and kind.

Learn to speak slowly and think carefully before speaking, the other person will be more willing to listen to our friendly communication.

8. Blame it on others

People with low EQ are less likely to take responsibility for their actions.

So when something bad happens due to their fault, they often find a way to blame someone or some objective condition.

If blamed, they will resent and complain that they had no other choice and that other people do not understand their difficulties.

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