Actively introducing a female car sales consultant to his son, Mr. Vien got a satisfactory daughter-in-law.
Speed Love Story
In 2021, Cao Nhung (currently 26 years old, from Binh Phuoc) worked as a sales consultant for an auto shop in Binh Phuoc. On duty at the shop, Nhung met a customer, Mr. Do Ngoc Vien (60 years old, from Binh Phuoc). Mr. Vien came to ask Nhung for advice on buying a car.
Photo commemorating the first time Nhung met her father-in-law at the car showroom
Seeing the young girl was active and resourceful, Mr. Vien asked about her hometown, age, marital status... then introduced her to his son.
“My dad was very enthusiastic at that time, giving me his phone number, Facebook, Zalo, and telling me to save and add him as a friend right away. I happily joked along, not expecting this relationship to become a reality,” Nhung said.
After the first meeting, Mr. Vien actively texted Nhung to ask about the matchmaking situation. She was so excited that she proactively texted Do Minh Phuc - Mr. Vien's son.
Minh Phuc (currently 26 years old) is a soldier in Binh Phuoc. After just a few short conversations, the two developed feelings for each other. After talking online for only 10 days, Nhung was taken to the unit by her future in-laws to meet Minh Phuc.
At their first meeting, Nhung was a bit disappointed because the other person was dark and thin. However, emotionally, she felt full and well-rounded. The two of them felt familiar as if they had known each other for a long time.
The couple got married after more than 1 month of dating.
That same day, Minh Phuc took the initiative to confess his love and received Nhung's nod of approval.
With the support of both families, the couple's love story went very smoothly. In early 2022, they officially got married after 1 and a half months of dating.
Husband's words in the delivery room moved his wife
Nearly 3 years into marriage, Nhung experienced many emotions. She patiently listened to and understood her husband, persistently expressing her desire for him to change.
“My husband is good at his professional skills but is quite bad at other aspects like communication, housework, cooking... However, he learned all of those things for me.
Nhung and Phuc's happy home
I did everything from whispering, encouraging to praising him to help him do better in his role as a husband and father. But that change did not happen overnight, it was a process,” Nhung said.
Throughout her pregnancy, Nhung was always taken to prenatal checkups by her husband. On the day of giving birth, her husband encouraged her mentally and took good care of her.
“After giving birth, I was in so much pain that I couldn’t clean myself. My mother told me to let her wash me, but my husband took over and said, ‘No, I’ll do it for you, wife.’ That was the sentence that comforted me the most during my labor,” Nhung said.
Over the years, Nhung and her husband have spent more time apart than together. Phuc has to work at his unit, coming home twice a month, staying home for two days each time.
Every time he comes home, he takes the initiative to take care of everything like cleaning the house, looking after the children, teaching them... Nhung admits that there was a time when she felt very sad when she had to live far away from her husband, but now she has balanced her life and emotions.
Mother-in-law happily welcomes daughter-in-law home
Her in-laws are a solid support for Nhung to do that. Her parents support her with housework and childcare so that she can work with peace of mind. In daily life, both sides behave properly and care for each other sincerely.
“My father-in-law is probably the one who has changed the most. My mother-in-law also commented the same thing. Over the years, he has become calmer and listens to his children more,” Nhung shared.
Nhung also boldly changed many habits in her husband's family. Previously, her husband's family often did not care about special occasions of the year, did not give each other greetings and special gifts.
When she became a daughter-in-law, Nhung proactively organized birthday parties for all family members and gave gifts to her parents on special holidays to create a cozy atmosphere.
“At first, my dad found this strange and cumbersome, but on October 20th, for the first time in 30 years of marriage, he went to buy a gift for my mom.
Even my husband is the same, now on every holiday, he will call home to congratulate his parents, the family members see that and follow suit... That makes me very happy", Nhung shared.
Nhung believes that when living under the same roof, not only she has to learn how to be a wife and daughter-in-law, but her husband also has to learn how to be a husband, and her in-laws also have to learn how to be parents...
“If each side takes one step forward, the two sides will get one step closer to each other,” Nhung said.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/ong-chu-binh-phuoc-di-mua-o-to-bat-ngo-tim-duoc-nang-dau-nhu-y-172241213083139101.htm
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