GĐXH - A daughter getting married is like spilled water. This is a bitter saying about the fate of women growing up in families that still follow many old concepts.
That is the bitter story of a woman in Henan (China). She took her child back to her mother's house, but what hurt her the most was being kicked out of the house by her mother.
The woman held her child in one arm and pulled her suitcase in the other, traveling a long distance to reach her house.
This is where she grew up, where her parents and younger brother lived. But just a few minutes later, the little girl burst into tears, and she herself cried bitterly.
When the mother saw her daughter return, she was not happy but instead angry. She blocked her daughter right outside the door, not letting her enter, and even threw the suitcase far away.
"I told you not to get a divorce, but you still did it. Now you have to suffer the consequences," the mother said.
The mother saw her daughter return, not happy but on the contrary, angry.
It turned out that the woman had divorced despite her family's advice, now with nowhere to go, she could only return to the place where she grew up.
The mother did not allow her daughter to enter the house because she was afraid that the neighbors would gossip and embarrass the family.
There is a more important reason: "divorced women bring bad luck to the family, affecting their younger brother's path to marriage."
The words were also clear, mother told her to go wherever she wanted, as long as she didn't come home, as for whether or not she would see him again, she would think about it later.
Being kicked out of the house by her mother with nowhere to go, the woman could not hold back her tears.
But she did not dare to resist, because mother and daughter were at a dead end, arguing with her mother was meaningless, she just persistently begged, hoping that she would let her stay for a few days to figure out the next step.
The most frightening thing for a family is not the lack of money, but the poverty of the parents' souls.
Sometimes there are parents who never bring warmth and strength, on the contrary, they use their cold attitude and words to sow pain and deep hurt to their children.
What is the most frightening thing about a family is not having no money, not being sick, but the fact that family members cannot talk well to each other.
This means a family full of verbal violence.
No matter how rich a family is, it makes people want to run away. On the contrary, a harmonious family, no matter how simple, makes people feel extremely attached.
What is more terrible than poverty is the hurtful words between family members.
Our family is not a place to argue about right or wrong, nor is it a battlefield to determine victory or defeat. Illustration photo
Harsh words only drive loved ones further away. Physical wounds may heal with time. But the invisible wounds of words pierce the heart.
It can be so sudden that it knocks a person out of their wits, you have to understand that what really brings a marriage to the brink of collapse is often not the family situation but the hurtful words that accumulate over the years.
Our family is not a place to argue about right or wrong, nor is it a battlefield to decide victory or defeat.
Love must be expressed. The mouth of parents is the fate of their children. The greatest ignorance of a family is when the children outside are not defeated by the world.
But ruined by the parents' own mouth. Good speaking and good communication is the best feng shui of the family.
A family full of criticism, blame, and mutual blame will surely decline. A harmonious family, even if poor, will prosper.
If the family is in harmony, blessings will come naturally. The encouragement, praise, motivation, respect, and support from our lover is the motivation for us to move forward without fear.
Parental recognition is the foundation for children to stand firm in life.
So knowing how to communicate well and talk well is an important strategy in marriage, not blaming big things.
Do not argue over small things, do not bring up old stories, do not fear winning or losing, so the family will become happier, the couple will be warm, the family will be good.
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