What playgrounds do parents create for their children during the summer?

Life stories share life issues such as what playgrounds parents should create for their children during the summer, how the husband's "outsourcing" of childcare to his wife affects the children, and whether or not to buy goods or use services from relatives out of courtesy.

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What playgrounds do parents create for their children during the summer?

Summer vacation is a joy for children but seems to be a worry for many parents. Because how to have a fun, safe and useful summer for children, how to create a playground for children is something that makes many parents worry.

Parents accompanying and playing with their children will bring a lot of positive feelings in the relationship between parents and children.

Ms. Nguyen Thi Ngoc Vui (Tan Binh District, Ho Chi Minh City) shared that she is a busy person because of work, but during her child's summer vacation, she always takes time and organizes playground activities to help mother and child connect with each other such as reading books, learning music, or instructing her child to cook, helping her child with other activities during the day: "I often give my child tasks with rewards, for example, if my child reads all 3 pages of a book, after I check successfully, that day I will take my child to the bookstore to give him a gift to praise him."

Master Phan Thi Mai Quyen - Psychology expert expressed her opinion: “We can join our children in some outdoor activities, walk with them in the park, or join short-term clubs such as swimming. Or travel so that children will experience family connection and coordinated activities outside. From there, their ability to perceive the world around them will develop more. Parents accompanying and playing with their children will bring many positive feelings in the relationship between parents and children. At the same time, it also gives children experiences about diverse forms of summer entertainment instead of just focusing on the Internet and phones”.

When the husband "contracts" the child-rearing work to his wife

In every family, children always need care and education from both father and mother to develop fully. The father plays a very important role in the formation and perfection of the personality, intelligence, and emotions of the child, whether it is a girl or a boy. However, in many families, the husband is busy with work, so he entrusts the responsibility of raising children to his wife. This will inadvertently affect the development of the child and the happiness of the family.

Fathers play a very important role in the formation and perfection of the personality, intelligence and emotions of children, whether they are girls or boys.

Dr. Nguyen Nu Nguyet Anh - Head of the Department of Sociology, University of Social Sciences and Humanities - VNU-HCM shared: “Raising or taking care of children is often considered to be “left entirely” to the wife. However, in a modern society with a trend towards equality, both men and women must go out to earn income to contribute to the family economy. Therefore, sharing in taking care of children in the family must also be done, so both husbands and wives have the responsibility to take care of children.”

Master Tran Nam - Sociology expert, University of Social Sciences and Humanities - VNU-HCM expressed his opinion: "When the father does not care enough for his children, the connection between the father and the children in the family will be lacking. And this leads to the children not feeling much about their father's love, and the bond between the children and their father will become weak."

When a father does not pay enough attention to his children, the connection between father and child in the family will be lacking.

The expert emphasized: “Fathers should spend more time with their children, a few calls or messages to ask about their children will also help improve the father-child relationship. Or on weekends, you should spend time going out, shopping, going to the bookstore, or going to the movies together, visiting grandparents, organizing short trips will also help the situation between father and child to be more connected and closer.”

Should we buy goods and use services out of courtesy?

Many people when starting a business selling services will usually sell goods and provide services to acquaintances. Because simply, acquaintances will easily trust the products and services provided than strangers. Because of the relationship, many people have bought goods, signed contracts or used services even when they do not need them.

Ms. NVX (HCMC) shared that she used to trust her family members and out of respect, she bought an insurance contract for 30 million VND per year from a younger sibling, but when the incident happened, she was shocked to discover that she could not withdraw the money she had paid into the insurance as her younger sibling had introduced.

Mr. Lam Minh Chanh - Director of Bizuni Business & Finance Academy shared: “Each person has their own spending and saving plan, so when we spend a large amount of money to buy an item or a high-value product when we do not need it, it will break all those plans. And we will never achieve our financial goals if we do not follow our spending plan. We should clearly distinguish between helping and buying. If we really want to buy that high-value item, we should have a monthly savings plan so that when we reach the amount, we can buy it.”

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