A small gift is enough to warm the hearts of women on the day they are remembered - Illustration photo
In my opinion, this needs to be carefully considered.
My wife is a rather practical woman, sometimes I find her a bit naive. When we first met, I was sometimes a bit surprised by her thoughts. For example, when we were walking on the street, we both saw a girl with a beautiful figure, instead of me admiring her, my wife was the one who complimented her first. When I asked her why, she said that women are like flowers, who wouldn't like beautiful flowers?
I am impressed with this quite practical and somewhat real way of thinking, assuming that the girl he is pursuing also likes flowers.
So every March 8th, I spend a lot of money to buy lots of fresh flowers, choosing the most beautiful and fragrant ones to give her. Of course, my wife is very happy.
But that was when we were still in love. Since we got married, the frequency of giving flowers and the size of the bouquets I gave gradually decreased. By the time my second child was born, I had stopped showing off.
Instead of spending hundreds of thousands of dong, I bought a whole bouquet of flowers, washed the vase myself, cut the plants and put them in.
My wife was clearly happy at first, but every two or three years I do it (October 20, February 14, March 8), so she gradually got used to my rough yet simple image.
Every time I finished, I looked at it and put it on the table myself. I meant it as a gift for my wife, but it was quite embarrassing to say so I usually just smiled. When my daughter saw this, she leaned over and asked why Dad gave Mom flowers without saying anything.
My wife listened and laughed and said no need to say anything, if you love each other then show it, but now that my parents are married, my father's actions speak louder than words.
Honestly, when my wife said that, I was shocked. Many times on February 14th and March 8th, I felt that it was a bit formal, so I didn't buy flowers. But I passed by the shop, then came back to buy a bouquet to display in the house with only one thought: as a man, if the words of love are awkward to say, why should I regret a bouquet of flowers?
But it's not that difficult or expensive, just a bouquet of flowers can make your wife happy, so why don't you open your heart and "pick up a flower"?
As a woman, there is no woman who does not like flowers, does not like to say sweet words of love. As long as the flower comes from sincerity, from the heart of the opposite sex.
Recently, we often complain that there are too many formalities and ceremonies to praise each other. That is not entirely true. There are 365 days in a year, and women are born as the weaker sex, with the heavy duty of bearing and giving birth, with fragile souls and many weaknesses.
How can a single day, March 8, October 20 or February 14, be enough to honor their sacrifices? Sometimes, honoring them for an entire lifetime is not enough.
A small gift, a flower is enough to warm the hearts of women on the day they are reminded of them. To make them feel loved, protected, and cared for.
If we say that flowers and gifts are just formalities, we deny the fundamental value of the natural world. All things born have their own value and mission. A bouquet of flowers, although not fresh forever, still has the value of being the embodiment of sublimation in emotions.
We buy a bouquet of fresh flowers and give it to the person we love, whether it is our wife, mother, sister or female relative, the moment of happiness of the recipient when receiving the flowers is the sublimation that the bouquet brings. So men, please open your heart to remember to give flowers to your sisters on March 8!
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