Let's stop complaining, okay?

At that moment, I suddenly remembered a friend who once said that waking up every morning in your own bed, in your familiar warm blanket, not in a hospital, on the cold ground or even "sleeping" forever... that is a blessing in life. So don't often complain about suffering. If you look down, you will see many people who suffer many times more. Just looking sideways, we can easily see many people like us, often frowning, tired, uncomfortable, frustrated, angry... Quite a few negative adjectives, so we think that looking up, people are not suffering! In fact, rich people also suffer a lot. Big boats, big waves, sometimes houses, land, assets, luxury cars... you can see them but they are all mortgaged. Even in their wallets, the expensive branded wallet, or the handbag you always wanted, there is not a single penny of value!

Rich people have sufferings that "ordinary people" like us often do not fully understand, do not fully feel, do not fully imagine. So we just think that we are poor so we suffer, that's all. I know, there are people who often say "don't know when life will end suffering". Then, when life happens to have unfavorable events, is no longer smooth, they will ponder: It turns out that the ordinary life they once had was not really miserable. It's just that they keep thinking it was miserable, it was not worth anything, until even that normality is no longer experienced, then they know how to appreciate, feel grateful and full of regret.

It is fortunate if we understand that we are not suffering, we should stop complaining about suffering. Stop saying that phrase, not because we are afraid of it coming back to us, but because complaining does not help our lives improve at all. Only when our hearts are focused on bright, positive and joyful things, will our lives receive good energy, luck and joy. It is like asking for what you want, wishing for it. Although there are no official statistics or research on this, after many experiences, you will admit that those who complain less are more successful than those who just sit around complaining, blaming life and heaven. Because instead of sitting around blaming fate, complaining about yourself, why not spend time working, studying, and improving your own life, isn't that better?

If we complain about our suffering, others will suffer, but we ourselves are not necessarily suffering! People suffer because they have to listen to us complain about our suffering, they suffer too much, right? I hope that you will only listen to it this once and then remove the word "suffering" from your life dictionary in the most proactive, gentle and optimistic way. I believe that this is also a simple way for you and me to live more peacefully every day.

Source: https://thanhnien.vn/nhan-dam-minh-dung-than-kho-nua-duoc-khong-185250215204826446.htm