GĐXH - On our big family reunion day, it was supposed to be a happy time of reunion but something happened that disrupted the atmosphere of the meal.
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This year, my cousin's family went back to their hometown to celebrate Tet. When the family first arrived, my cousin told his 10-year-old son Haohao to come and wish the adults a Happy New Year.
As a result, Haohao did not say any wishes but directly reached out to take the red envelope and shouted: "Red envelope, red envelope".
After receiving the red envelope, Haohao opened a few red envelopes, turned back and said to his parents: "Mom, you're lying, there's no big red envelope here, if I knew I wasn't going with you, I would have gone home to watch TV."
Haohao's mother seemed embarrassed and could only hold her son aside to let him play with his cell phone when she saw her son being so noisy.
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While eating, Haohao happened to sit across from me. I saw him watching short videos while eating. When he saw a dish he liked, he would put it in front of him and set it aside. If he ate a dish he didn't like, he would put it somewhere else.
Haohao's mother said to Haohao's father: "Hurry up and take care of your son."
The cousin scolded Haohao a few times and then went outside to smoke. Since we were relatives, we didn't say much.
But after this situation, it is clear that many people have lost the mood to enjoy delicious food.
In just 3 hours of meeting, I understood my cousin's family rules and how he tutored his children from the small dining table and suddenly I clearly saw how important the two words "education" are to a child.
A dinner party taught me: Too much indulgence is bad and too few rules are not enough.
Why teach children discipline?
A psychologist once said: "Sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny."
Family rules and teachings will affect our character and destiny.
A family with discipline and education, no matter how poor, will gradually become prosperous. A family without discipline, no matter how rich, will fail, because the family tradition is not correct.
That's why it is said that a well-disciplined family is the most valuable asset of the family. Children who do not live in a disciplined way will not be able to achieve success.
It is important to know that rules are the foundation of parenting, as well as the 'key' to the development of a family. Rules are like a kind of inhibition, but in fact, they are a kind of self-protection.
Disregarding the rules of life is equivalent to disregarding one's own life.
Only by guiding children to follow the rules and understand the rules can they thrive.
A well-disciplined and educated family, no matter how poor, will gradually become prosperous. Illustrative photo
Rules of life are mandatory lessons in everyone's life.
If a person wants to be successful, he must follow the rules and live by the rules. Therefore, the family will become more and more prosperous and wealthy. A society with many people living by the rules of morality will also become more and more civilized. Therefore, there must be rules in life.
Only children with rules can walk on a good path, and children who lose rules will also lose their foundation in life.
As parents, while guiding children to live according to human standards, we also need to set an example for our children to follow.
Without rules, there will never be any achievement. Parents want their children to have a bright future. The most important thing that cannot be overlooked is the method of educating children.
As a parent, you can love and protect your children unconditionally, but society is not like that.
Therefore, from a young age, parents need to carefully educate their children, establish for them rules and ethical standards for being human, so that when they step out into society they can develop firmly on their own two feet.
Parents' excessive indulgence and indulgence in the process of educating their children is like a hidden "time bomb" in their bodies, ready to explode one day.
Lack of family discipline is the greatest poverty.
To have a sustainable family, we must know how to gather the strength of each family member together.
To do that, the most important thing is to have rules. If the family has no rules, everyone will become terribly selfish, and even more frightening is that economic problems will easily cause chaos.
For example, the husband in the family goes to work to earn money, but the wife spends it lavishly, then quietly gives the money to her family or lends it without negotiation between the two parties.
In marriage, the most important thing is connection and communication between the two sides. If the wife just keeps silent, she will upset her husband.
As a family, one wants to start a business, the other firmly opposes; one wants to save money to buy a house in the city, the other insists on living in the countryside...
Everyone is selfish in their own views, avoiding a thorough solution will cause the family to lose its "family rules".
Everyone longs for a peaceful, easy life, but we will never achieve it without working together and sharing.
In work, there must always be support between departments, just like a family that wants to prosper must support each other in all aspects.
The fundamental difference between the poor and the rich is not wealth, but perception.
Raising awareness is not simply about "managing yourself well", but starting from the aspects of ethics, capacity and rules.
To have a sustainable family, we must know how to gather the strength of each family member together. Illustration photo
First, be filial to your parents and love your children, actively do good deeds and accumulate virtue, maintain harmony within, and create a good image outside. Only then will you be recognized by society and helped by good people.
Second, there must be a person as the pillar of the family, this person must be stable and have everyone's consensus to avoid disunity in family management.
When conflicts arise, this person will also have to step in to mediate and arrange a resolution for family members.
Third, set up rules for earning, living and saving, and allocate money reasonably so that every family member knows what they should do.
Finally, family members should study together to improve their earning ability, increase their understanding of society and accumulate wealth.
If you want to change to develop yourself and become rich, you must first completely change your destiny, not just focus on immediate benefits.
A family with good order and tradition will certainly not only be rich but also harmonious, peaceful, and life will become easier.
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