No matter what the circumstances, politeness never hurts.
First impressions are extremely important, not only in life but in any situation.
Therefore, the first meeting will leave a very deep impression on others.
If the first impression is good, it will create sympathy for the other person. On the contrary, if you leave a bad impression on others, there will be no second chance to meet again.
In love, when discussing marriage, meeting the other person's family is indispensable. This is also an opportunity for your partner to "score points" with the family and vice versa.
A guy living in Chongqing (China) drove 6 hours to meet his girlfriend's family. When he arrived, he found his girlfriend waiting at the gate. He bought a gift basket as a gift for his girlfriend's family.
Seeing her boyfriend coming, she quickly took the gift basket from his hand and walked ahead, leaving her boyfriend behind, bewildered.
Seeing his girlfriend's actions, he felt confused and tried to pull her hand but failed.
His girlfriend's actions made him feel disrespected so he decided to drive home.
The girlfriend heard the sound of the car starting and turned around to see that her boyfriend had already driven away.
She didn't know why her boyfriend suddenly left without coming home.
Their homes were 600km apart, so he had to drive 6 hours from 3am to get to his girlfriend’s house. When he arrived, he received no greetings or concern from his girlfriend.
On the contrary, his girlfriend only paid attention to carrying the gift basket into the house. This made him see clearly her true attitude. That's why he drove away.
The girlfriend did not know what she did wrong. Netizens said that the girlfriend only focused on the gift basket and did not care about her boyfriend, which was disrespectful to her boyfriend.
In addition, one person said that because she thought her boyfriend was a relative, she did not care too much about manners and should sympathize with him.
Some people think differently:
"When introducing her boyfriend to her family for the first time, the girlfriend should bring him into the house and not do that. I think we need to review the way the girlfriend's family welcomes her.
Whether it's your first time visiting your lover's house or going to someone else's house to play, as the host you should welcome them warmly.
That shows hospitality, and is also the attitude of a good family. Therefore, the girlfriend's action is wrong, and the guy's action is right.
The girlfriend's family did not take her boyfriend seriously at first sight. Moreover, the girlfriend not understanding what made her boyfriend leave also shows a lack of understanding of politeness and etiquette. The girlfriend herself needs to learn more."
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/chang-trai-lai-xe-6-gio-den-ra-mat-nha-ban-gai-nhung-vua-den-noi-lai-quay-ve-ngay-nguyen-nhan-tu-co-nguoi-yeu-eq-thap-172250108142435793.htm
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