(Dan Tri) - My girlfriend and I went to the same school, I am one year older than her. We had a lot in common and were very happy until she decided to build an image to become famous on social networks.
My girlfriend is a pretty, active and very attractive girl. Her confidence and cheerfulness made me fall in love with her at first sight.
We have been in love for almost a year, she has brought me many beautiful memories. But since she became "addicted" to social networks, our lives have changed a lot.
My girlfriend and I go to the same school, she is in her third year. Since starting her "career" online, her studies have become neglected.
Recently, my girlfriend often skips class and asks me to take attendance for her because she often stays up late editing videos or livestreaming (broadcasting online) talking to her followers.
My girlfriend has ambitions to make a lot of money from social networks (Illustration: Nate)
At first, I was happy that she found her passion. But gradually, I realized that social media had completely taken over her. She was no longer focused on her studies, and she had to rely on her friends to do her group assignments.
The school we attend is a top school. If my girlfriend continues like this, she will not be able to continue studying. Once I reminded her, she snapped: "Why study so much? When you become famous, you will be able to make money too."
My girlfriend spends a lot of money on clothes, cosmetics, and decorations just to make videos or take pictures. Every time she posts, she carefully reads every comment, likes, and replies to everyone.
I understand that she wants recognition, but seeing how she's obsessed with views and followers, I can't help but worry.
The time we spent together became less and less. Dates now revolved around taking pictures or videos. Instead of talking, she was always looking at her phone.
I started to wonder, does she still love me or does she just see me as someone behind the scenes, helping her hold the camera, or carrying heavy things when filming outdoor videos?
One time, I tried to talk seriously. I told her that studying is very important, she is missing a good opportunity to develop herself. But she just laughed: "Do you think I don't know how to calculate? I just need a few more hot videos, then making money will be easier than you working".
That statement made me both angry and sad. I was busy with my final year of school but still took the time to work part-time so I could take care of myself and pamper my girlfriend.
Everything I do is being denied by my girlfriend. I still love her, but I am very worried about our future together. If she continues like this, will our relationship go anywhere?
I understand that social media is not bad and I respect her passion. But is that passion worth sacrificing her education, career and our relationship?
Should I continue to be by her side, patiently encouraging her to come back to reality? Or should I accept that we are no longer together?
For me, my ideal lover doesn't need to be famous or rich. I just need a girl who knows how to appreciate what she has and build a solid future with me. Can I help her realize that?
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