Actress Thu Quynh: I don't want to be bound by a marriage certificate

I was happy and then someone posted that I was miserable.

- From the shares on her personal page in the past 2 days, it can be seen that Thu Quynh, although her due date is near, seems to be facing many storms due to outside matters?

I am not affected too much because I am proactive in my life, I know myself. It has been a long time since my life has been affected or disturbed by false information on the internet.

The source of the problem started when I shared a status on my Facebook. Before, my followers only believed the information I posted on Thu Quynh's official page. However, at this time, there are too many pages spreading news that changed 180 degrees. I shared a status that I was happy, but people posted articles saying I was very miserable. I just found it funny.

Perhaps I am immune to such information, so of course I will not read those news sites. My social media pages also do not usually show such articles because I only read mainstream newspapers. However, my relatives and friends after reading such fabricated information reported it to me.

Relatives of course know about Thu Quynh's condition, but they can't be as stable as me and sometimes get agitated. So I have to comfort my mother to reassure her that I'm okay because everyone is worried that my pregnancy will be psychologically affected by negative information.

Thu Quynh is preparing to welcome her second child.

- In many countries, most recently in Korea, when artists are exposed to false information, they immediately ask for the article to be removed, corrected, apologized, and even take legal action. This is not the first time your personal life has been distorted, have you ever thought about asking the law to intervene?

I have thought about that too. And I am not the only victim. For example, recently Ninh Duong Lan Ngoc announced that she would study abroad and it was a happy thing, but then people made up many dramatic stories that made her speak up a lot.

The psychology of accepting a story that is not yours, although artists seem to be used to it, still feels sorry for the audience because they do not know what to believe. The worst is still relatives who know exactly what you are like but are still psychologically affected by false information.

Or artists who are very happy like Minh Hang for example are still gossiped about. Getting married is talked about, not getting married is also talked about, having children is also talked about, not having children is also talked about. Living together is also talked about, living together without registering the marriage is also talked about and then it turns into a story far from reality.

- You are brave when facing fabricated stories from the public, your mother is too, but Be is still too young. So, did Thu Quynh have to talk a lot with her son to explain what is false information and what is true information?

Be is not allowed to use social media so she is not affected by those things at the moment. The important thing is that Be is with me and knows all about her mother's relationships. Be also knows what is right and what is wrong. Luckily, Be is very protective of me. She is happy and excited about me having another baby.

Before deciding to have a second baby, I had to do some ideological work with my child. The big reason I decided to have a baby was because Be really wanted a sibling. Be was the one who urged me to have another baby for years, sometimes several times a year. And now my child has accompanied me throughout my pregnancy. He shares and loves his mother very much.

Actually, I am not too worried about the side information because it will pass very quickly, after a few days it will be passed on to someone else. I cannot control the flow of that information, so each reader must be a wise person. The current negative information is pushed up very quickly because of the joint efforts of many people's curiosity. There are too many fake accounts on the internet and the hurtful comments all come from fake accounts, so I think there is no need to argue with the machines. I hope the audience is wise when reading the information.

Unlike many other artists, I manage my own personal page. Everything I post is Thu Quynh's official statement, so if anyone has any questions, please go to my personal page and ask so I have the opportunity to explain clearly.

I don't choose to get married at this time because I don't see it as important.

- As you said, Be understands and protects his mother very well, like a little man to Thu Quynh. Is that why Thu Quynh is not impatient to find a man and chooses to continue being a single mother?

My announcement of becoming a single mother for the second time has been the most controversial thing in recent days. People are not fully understanding the two words "single". I have explained the simplest meaning of this word, which is that I am not remarrying and do not need another wedding. I chose not to get married at this time because I do not see it as important.

Everyone has their own pursuit of happiness. Some people need a wedding, a commitment between husband and wife with a marriage certificate, and we need to respect that. As for me, I don't need a marriage certificate, I don't need a wedding, but that doesn't mean I don't need a man to lean on. I think everyone should respect our choices.

The actress does not want to be bound by a marriage certificate but values true happiness.

- So can it be simply understood that Thu Quynh does not want to make her man public? Thu Quynh is a single mother but that does not mean that her daughter's father is not by her side?

Yes! I have a slightly different way of thinking. That is, I don't want to have two husbands on paper . I feel it's unnecessary.

- How to convince him to think the same way as you because not every man agrees with not getting married on paper?

Our case is not unique. However, life is much more open now and people increasingly understand the value of whether we can live together, how we behave and respond to each other. That is much more important than paperwork. We agree with that thinking and create comfort and freedom for each other in our relationship with each other. We are happy with that.

As someone who has been through a divorce, everyone in my family has a more open view, just hoping that I will find happiness. The only thing that makes me upset is the news that my child does not have a father. That is a completely wrong perception, because without a father, how can there be a child? (laughs loudly). Of course my child will have a father. Many men seem to be offended, thinking that I am showing that I do not need men. Of course! Society needs men because it cannot deviate.

The actress chose not to reveal the father of her child.

- That means it is possible that one day Thu Quynh will publicly reveal her man, the father of her daughter?

I just say that at this point, I don't know if one day I will feel like making him public. My child will still receive love from both parents. I never said that my child doesn't have a father.

(Source: Vietnamnet)

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