Is the "powerful roof" in the family
After more than a year of marriage, how has your life changed compared to when you were single?
Before getting married, Binh and I had lived together for more than 4 years. So after getting married, life was not much different, except for our mindset. Before getting married, we both easily quarreled loudly whenever there was a conflict, but now we are more gentle and listen to each other more.
After getting married, Phuong Trinh Jolie and Ly Binh are more gentle in their behavior towards each other.
As for raising Mia (Phuong Trinh Jolie’s stepchild – PV), the two of us have been working together since we started living together and are very compatible in raising our child. We both aim for the common goal of raising our child to be healthy, to teach our child to be a good person, useful to society and to be independent.
Many people liken marriage to the grave of love. How do you feel about it?
This depends on each couple’s circumstances. I don’t know about other families, but for me, life after marriage is very interesting. In the near future, the couple will welcome a “little angel” together with many expectations.
We buy baby stuff together, still plan to explore new places, travel together. We will both exercise together after I give birth, and work together to develop the company.
I think when both truly love each other, marriage is a new turning point in love that helps the couple grow more mature.
And do you still have a way for couples to always "keep the fire" of love in marriage?
The most important thing, in my opinion, is that the husband and wife should "respect each other as newlyweds". Even though they are married, both of them still maintain the same lifestyle and activities as before marriage. As a woman, I still have to take care of myself, be beautiful, neat, clean, fragrant, always improve my knowledge about both economic and inner life, and learn many new skills. At the same time, always respect my partner, remember to thank and apologize. That is probably enough to keep the family happy.
Women should not control their husbands too much, but should take that time to take care of themselves to become the best, most beautiful version so that their husbands are always proud to be by their side.
So in the family, is Phuong Trinh the "powerful roof"?
You are right, in the family, I am the most powerful person, not anyone else (laughs). Actually, Binh always gives in to his wife, but if I see that I am wrong, I will take the initiative to apologize to my husband. I am a Libra, I am always fair in everything, if I am wrong, I will admit my mistake, apologize and correct it. On the contrary, Binh is the same.
With such power, you must be the "financial treasurer" in the house?
Both Binh and I are in charge of finances. When there is something that needs to be spent on the family, we will discuss it reasonably, agree and spend the money together. Therefore, my husband and I have never argued about money.
No problem with biological children or stepchildren
How do you prepare to welcome a new family member?
The couple are preparing to welcome a new family member after more than a year of marriage.
We have bought all the necessary things for mother and baby to prepare for welcoming the new member. My due date is June 22. Nowadays, life is very different from the past, so just spending one day shopping at stores for mothers and babies can prepare everything.
After nearly 10 years of giving birth, how do you feel?
The first birth was so far away from the second that everything seemed like the first time. I also forgot all my previous experiences. Now, I have to relearn, listen to lessons about taking care of children, how to teach children in the 4.0 era, as well as how to educate children in the womb, and buy modern equipment to support easier child-rearing.
Psychologically, I'm not too worried because this time I have my whole family supporting me, my husband, my mother-in-law and Mia by my side. That makes me much more comfortable.
Wife is pregnant, does husband pamper his wife "like an egg"?
As a strong, independent woman, I rarely ask my husband for anything. I do everything I can do myself. Binh always wants to help his wife to make her feel comfortable. When we travel abroad, I go to the baggage claim first to get my own suitcase. But Binh still asks why I don't let him do it (laughs).
I feel happy because my husband loves me. However, no matter what I ask him to do, I always say thank you. Even though I know my husband loves me, the saying "respect each other as guests" has helped us stay happy like the first days.
Do you mind about biological children and stepchildren in the family?
Mia herself will feel how much love her mother-in-law and Mr. Binh have for Mia. Actually, Mr. Binh is closer to Mia than I am. Therefore, I am completely assured and never afraid. The couple will give their love to their children equally.
Ly Binh is close to Mia, Phuong Trinh Jolie's stepchild.
How did Mia react when she found out she was going to be a big sister?
Mia is very happy, talking to her baby brother every day in her mother's womb. This summer, she is mentally ready to help her parents take care of her baby brother when needed. Up until now, Mia has been alone, so now that she has a baby brother, she is very happy to have a baby brother to play with. That's what my daughter told me.
How did your husband support you in taking care of baby Mia while you were pregnant?
Mr. Binh trained Mia to be independent so he did not have to take care of her much. She was independent in studying at school and doing homework without anyone reminding her. She also ate and cleaned herself without her parents urging her.
Besides, my grandmother lives in the same room with Mia so she helps her whenever she needs help. My mother and Binh's father also love Mia very much, always by her side whenever she needs, play with Mia and take her on trips. On June 11, our whole family will go on a beach trip, taking Mia on a trip before I give birth.
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