GĐXH - In the post, he described in detail the requirements for an ideal girlfriend. He wants his girlfriend to be born after 2000, at least 10 years younger than him.
Recently, a man named Lou (35 years old) posted about his standards for choosing a girlfriend, attracting the attention of the Chinese online community.
Lou introduced himself as 1.75 m tall, 70 kg, and an only child in a wealthy family in Yiwu, Zhejiang.
He has a doctorate from a top university in China and an annual income of more than one million yuan. In addition, he enjoys sports and financial investment.
With those conditions, Lou hopes to find a partner born after 2000, which means she must be at least 10 years younger than him.
Lou also prioritizes girls with outstanding looks, rich families or special talents. Illustration photo
The man from Zhejiang also emphasized that " she must be thin and beautiful" , about 1.65 m - 1.71 m tall.
His partner's education level is also an important factor for Lou. He wants her to have at least a bachelor's degree from one of China's nine elite universities.
“I will also consider graduates from foreign universities in the global top 20, depending on their own special conditions,” Lou wrote.
Lou also favors girls with outstanding looks, wealthy families, or special talents.
His post went viral, sparking mixed reactions. Some supporters argued that Lou had the right to set high standards because he was successful.
"He's excellent, his choice is reasonable. Many netizens are just jealous," commented a netizen.
However, many people criticized him for his narrow-minded views and lack of respect for love.
"What a tragedy for education. He treats love like a business transaction," commented a netizen.
Not status or wealth, this is the standard to choose the right partner
Choose someone who sees you, so you can be yourself. Illustration photo
Here are 7 criteria to consider first when choosing someone who will be with you for life, according to Timesofindia.
1. Find someone you can easily connect with
This factor is important because it will help two people talk to each other naturally, as if they have known each other for a long time.
So you can easily do anything or talk to them without feeling awkward. So you can feel like they are the one for you.
2. People with similar interests
People with similar interests will help make a marriage go smoothly.
"When you decide to commit your life to someone, you have to know what you have in common," says clinical psychologist and relationship expert Seema Hingorrany. "For example, if you are a big movie buff, you should find someone who shares your interest. That will make your life interesting."
3. Consider their understanding
If you are a carefree person and your partner is a perfectionist, this can lead to threats to the marriage.
It will be difficult for the two of you to get along when you have such different perceptions.
4. Family background
While it's okay to choose someone from a different social background, make sure he/she isn't too far removed from you.
5. Have respect for each other
Obviously, you can't spend your life with someone who doesn't respect you or appreciate your dreams and individuality.
Choose someone who sees you, so you can be yourself.
6. Trustworthy person
Nowadays, this is an important factor when choosing a life partner. You certainly cannot have a happy marriage if the other person does not make you trust.
7. Spend time together
This is equally important. When people fall in love, they tend to want to be together.
People who don't make time for you, for various reasons, are a disaster for your marriage sooner or later.
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