Father does not want his son to get married because of social expectations

Over time, I realized that you needed more freedom and choice. I didn't want you to rush into marriage because of society's expectations.

The social network Wechat once posted a tearful letter from a father living in Henan (China) to his 30-year-old daughter.

Through the letter, the father expressed his deep love and blessings to his 30-year-old daughter, encouraging her not to blindly pursue marriage but to choose an independent life and bravely face challenges and pressures.

"My dear daughter,

As you open this letter, you may have realized that I am not a man of many words. But I hope that I can convey to you my deep love and blessings from the bottom of my heart.

Now that you are 30 years old, I understand that you may have your own life and plans, but I still want to write these lines, not to interfere or impose, but simply to share the thoughts of a father who has experienced many ups and downs in life, with the daughter he loves the most.

First of all, I hope you don't blindly pursue marriage. It's not that I don't want you to have a happy family, but I hope you will have more autonomy and choices. As a woman, you will face many challenges and pressures, you can have more independent life choices instead of being bound by traditional expectations.

Dad knows that you are at the age of love, full of emotions and desire to find happiness. However, marriage is not just a fairy tale with vows of love, but a long journey that requires maturity, responsibility and deep understanding between two people. Do not let temporary emotions, sweet words or pressure from outside make you rush into decisions that you may regret later.

A father's love is always silent. He always stands behind you, encourages you, supports you, and silently protects you when you are in trouble. He is not good at expressing himself and does not often say "I love you", but his every action silently tells you how much he cares for you.

When I was little, my dad always prepared breakfast for me and took me to school, washed my clothes, cleaned my room. When I grew up a little bit, my dad accompanied me throughout my learning journey.

You are the most important person to me. I want you to live happily and become whoever you want to be. Even when one day you grow up and leave home, I will always be behind, silently supporting the little love of my life.

Dad still remembers the image of you when you were little, an innocent, cute and lively girl. You always nestled in my arms and listened to me tell stories about life. At that time, you were full of longing and expectations for the future. Over time, I realized that you needed more freedom and choice. Dad didn't want you to rush into marriage because of society's expectations. Dad hoped you could choose your own path in life and pursue your own dreams and happiness.

Marriage is a big commitment, my child. I hope you will find a man worthy of your love and sacrifice, someone who will walk with you through this life, share your joys and sorrows, and create a warm, happy family with you.

30 is just a number, so there's nothing wrong with not being married yet. In my eyes, you will always be a little girl who needs my protection. No matter how the outside world pushes you, no matter how lonely and stressed you feel, I will always be there for you.

My daughter, be brave to pursue your dreams and happiness, do not be swayed by outside pressure. When you feel confused, you can talk to your family and friends for support and advice.

Finally, I want to tell you that no matter what path you choose to take in life, I will always support you! Wherever you are, whoever you become, you will always be my most beloved daughter. I wish you peace and happiness a thousand times."

Source: https://giadinhonline.vn/gui-con-gai-tuoi-30-cha-khong-muon-con-ket-hon-vi-ki-vong-xa-hoi-d204921.html