The fateful Facebook friend button
Mr. Luu Bach Che (now 85 years old, living in Ha Dong district, Hanoi) confided that when he was still living with his wife, he loved her very much, pampered her, and took good care of her. Because she had many illnesses, she passed away. When his life partner was no longer with him, Mr. Che was very sad and regretful. His children wanted to find him a friend to keep him company and share his old age.
As for Mrs. Pham Thi Ngoc Cam (now 80 years old), she had gone through a broken marriage. Mrs. Cam single-handedly raised three children who were educated, grown up, and had their own families. Feeling sorry for her mother who was lonely in her old age and showing signs of depression, Ms. Vu Cam Thi - Mrs. Cam's daughter also wanted to find her mother a soulmate.
Mr. Che and Mrs. Cam have been together for 4 years.
They met each other through social networks, thanks to the connection of their two daughters.
“ My mother sacrificed her whole life for us. She raised three children by herself, and when they grew up, she never thought about her own happiness. I love my mother. When she got old, there was a period when she showed signs of quite severe depression.
My mother often feels sad and has trouble sleeping. Even small, simple things in life affect her emotions. At those times, she feels very sad and I think there needs to be a way to help her cope with it, ” said Thi.
Ms. Thi created her own Facebook account and activated the dating feature for her mother. While using her mother's phone, Ms. Thi sent a friend request to Mr. Luu Bach Che. The friend request became the destiny that brought them together. Coincidentally, on the other side, Mr. Che's daughter agreed to be friends, proactively contacted and asked for Ms. Cam's phone number.
She had a broken marriage, he lost his wife.
Both found harmony in each other.
After their accidental marriage, Mr. Che and Mrs. Cam often dated on Wednesdays and Saturdays. Although they did not meet often, on each date, they tried to bring each other new and romantic things.
Sweet love at 80 that young people can't keep up with
Up to now, Mr. Che and Cam have been together for 4 years. Their love story is fully supported by both sides' children, relatives and friends.
The grandparents do not live together, each going home after each date because they want to stay with their children and grandchildren to take care of and help the family. Over the past 4 years, they have taken each other to hundreds of tourist and resort destinations. On their trips, they usually go on separate dates, without their children and grandchildren.
Talking about her love story, Mrs. Cam's face lit up with happiness: " I have never been in love like this before ." Hearing her speak, Mr. Che sat next to her, held Mrs. Cam's hand tightly, and responded: " Me too ."
Every week, grandparents meet on Wednesday and Saturday.
They often go everywhere together.
Love seemed to have brought them back to their twenties, their souls in harmony, more youthful than ever. As young people love, Mr. Che and Mrs. Cam love the same way. To Mr. Che, Mrs. Cam is always like a flower that he wants to cherish.
Ms. Thi said that the way her grandparents loved each other is something that even young people cannot follow. They always take care of each other, understand each other, and try to understand what they do not understand. They always make each other happy. Especially on holidays like Valentine's Day, they never forget to express their feelings to their other half.
Mr. Che did not hesitate to give her compliments, because he knew she liked to hear sweet words.
“ He always saw her as beautiful. He often said: “She is as beautiful as my fairy”. She is beautiful in both appearance and soul. She is very talented, raising 3 children by herself, all of whom graduated from university. He considered her a special, rare woman ”, Mr. Che proudly said.
Despite their old age, their love for each other is not lacking in romance.
Whatever Mrs. Cam did, Mr. Che was always there to support her. Because of these things, she loved him even more.
Since they got together, Mr. Che and Mrs. Cam have both become much healthier. Mrs. Cam's signs of depression have also gradually disappeared over time. Since falling in love, Mrs. Cam eats well, sleeps well, and loves life. Seeing her mother happy, Ms. Thi is also happy and extremely happy.
After all, they want to tell everyone: " When you find true happiness, open your arms to welcome it and put aside prejudices to welcome happiness into life ."
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