No matter how busy you are, spend at least an hour a day talking, exchanging and sharing with your children. It can also be as simple as playing a game or watching a movie together, from which you can confide in your children about life. Below are some sentences that fathers should not be lazy but say to their children every day, helping them to be confident and have a bright future.
1. Dad loves you
Love is one of those energies that can never be wasted. Saying "I love you" every day will never lose its power.
Tell your child how much you love him or her. Tell him or her every day, even several times a day.
The phrase "I love you" doesn't lose its effectiveness when you say it every day. Illustration photo
2. How was your day?
This is an open-ended question to start a conversation with your child. After hearing your child say: "Today the teacher gave me an 8", "Friend A hit me", "Friend C didn't play with me"... then the father begins to explore and ask more about what happened to the child.
From there, fathers can also better understand their child's personality and how to handle problems when they arise. Then, parents can slowly explain, share, and suggest the best way to handle the situation.
Through simple questions, your child will understand how much you love and care for him. Having a spiritual support is extremely important, your child will feel that his father is always worried about him. From there, your child will be more confident in whatever he does.
3. Explore knowledge with your child
"Do you know what place we're passing? This is a historical place where your grandfather fought..." can be a way for dad to open the story and draw the child into it.
Children may not be interested in the topic, or they may be very interested, and of course, they will learn a lot of interesting knowledge through the conversation with you.
4. Dad is very proud to be your father.
Your child needs to know how you feel about being a parent. There is so much lost when communication breaks down and children no longer want to connect with their parent in all their life, emotions, perceptions...
Always keep the connection between family members by sharing feelings and don't be afraid to express your love and pride for your children in front of them.
Always keep family members connected by sharing feelings. Illustration photo
5. Dad has every confidence that you can do it well.
Believing that your child can do well is the most valuable encouragement for young children. In addition to praise and encouragement, what children need most is trust from their father.
The China Youth Research Center conducted a survey in six provinces and cities including Beijing, Shanghai, Guangdong, Yunnan, Gansu, and Henan, with the probing question: "What is the sentence you want to say to your parents the most?"
The results showed that the phrase "Trust your child" came out on top, with a vote share of 63.5%. This shows the undeniable importance of children being trusted by their parents.
6. Interpretation of the value of friendship
When dads have a good friend, someone they can meet, seek laughter, advice, and wholehearted help from..., they will show their children the value of true friendship.
Explaining the value of friendship through a real, genuine friendship will help your son understand that in life, there are always people worth trusting.
7. Have a great day at school, and don't forget who you are.
Your child develops his or her personality, character, and sense of self every day. Your child’s identity is constantly evolving and depends on who they are and what they do, not just their name. Remind your child of this every day.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/7-cau-bo-nen-noi-voi-tre-moi-ngay-de-tuong-lai-con-toa-sang-172240731154659053.htm
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