A man was caught cheating on a woman outside his home after he made out with her on a security camera, The Sun reported. The act was caught on camera by his wife.
The hurt wife decided to expose her husband by sharing the video on social media with the caption: "When your husband says he's too tired to go on a family trip that was planned in advance."
In the shared image, a man walks out of the house and checks to see if anyone is around, before signaling a woman to come out of the house. The woman, dressed in "scanty clothing", walks out to get into a waiting car. Before leaving, the man kisses his lover.
Watching security camera, wife discovers husband cheating
The video attracted the attention of the online community with more than 5.3 million views and many comments.
- "The way he kissed the woman made me mistake it for a husband kissing his wife goodbye before she left. It was unbelievable."
- "You should feel lucky that someone took that bad guy for you. Spend time on yourself and other good things,"
- "Technology is amazing",
In response to a comment, the wife said that she had changed the locks and that her husband had moved away. The woman also said that she had decided to divorce her cheating husband.
Different levels of infidelity
There are a myriad of reasons why a person cheats and understanding the levels of it can help you take control of the situation.
Emotional wandering
You are married but still can't stop your eyes and heart from dreaming and searching. As a man, you pay attention to the charming girls around you. As a woman, you are also moved by successful, elegant men. You even dream about leaving your partner, although you have never revealed this part of yourself.
This is normal, experts say. As humans, we all get tempted at some point or another. If you don’t obsess over that person all the time, this isn’t a problem. But this level can set the stage for the next steps, so set boundaries and find ways to be more loving and connected to your spouse.
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One-night stand
You were intimate with someone who wasn't your partner, but it wasn't something you planned on doing. You made a mistake in judgment or had a moment of weakness. The important thing is that it was a one-time thing.
This is due to a loss of control. Cut down on drinking or avoid socializing if it puts you in a dangerous situation. If you can't make that sacrifice, you probably shouldn't be in a committed relationship.
Emotional attachment
You have a platonic relationship that develops into something more, despite having a partner. If you've gone as far as admitting those feelings to the other person, you've gone too far.
This may not seem as serious as level two, but since you are in a relationship, being intimate with someone else is a higher level of betrayal. What you need to do now is consider the situation, be honest with both women and yourself.
promiscuous
There are types of people who have money and success, at home they have a faithful woman but whenever possible, they have women outside.
This is what happens when level two is unable to make the hard choices to make a change. If this is you, you are probably dealing with more personal issues than relationship issues. You need to take a step back and figure out why you can’t continue the commitment. If you can’t stop your impulsive behavior, end the relationship and maybe see a therapist.
Living a double life
You have two relationships invested in, leaving yourself split in two. You are cheating on not one but two women.
Again, this is what happens when you don't take the proper steps after the self-reflection at the previous level. Instead of deciding which woman is worth committing to, you choose both.
You need to admit it and change, because not only are you hurting two women and wasting their time, you're also hurting yourself by living a double life.
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