Family broken because baby was switched at birth, husband suspects wife of having an affair

GĐXH - Accused by her husband of being unfaithful, she burst into tears and shouted: "Just because our child is more beautiful than his parents, you doubt me?"

The incident happened to Mr. Liu and Ms. Ma's family in Guangxi, China.

The couple have been married for 5 years, their daughter is 3 years old, the family of three lives very happily. Mr. Luu is always proud of having a good wife and beautiful children.

However, hearing many people say that his child was as beautiful as a swan, while his parents were normal, Mr. Luu suspected that his wife was not faithful. He became increasingly cold towards his wife and child, leaving early and coming home late.

One day, after coming home from a drinking session and being slightly drunk, Mr. Luu had a big argument with his wife. He threw her a DNA test paper proving that his daughter was not his biological child.

Accused by her husband of being unfaithful, Ms. Ma burst into tears and shouted: "Just because my child is more beautiful than her parents, you suspect me?"

Because his daughter was so beautiful, Mr. Liu doubted his wife's fidelity. Illustration: Sohu

She immediately divorced her husband and moved with her children to another city. She sent her children to a school near home.

Here, her daughter became close friends with a classmate named Tieu Van. On Tieu Van's birthday, her parents invited Ma's daughter to the birthday party.

As soon as she saw Ma's daughter, Tieu Van's aunt blurted out: "Why does Van Van's friend look like her when she was little?"

Surprised by her sister's words, Ms. Luong (Tieu Van's mother) went into the room to find the family album. To her surprise, she saw that Ms. Ma's daughter really looked like her.

After that, Ms. Luong suspected that the baby was switched at birth. When asked, she learned that Ms. Ma's daughter was indeed born on the same day as her child.

For a long time, Ms. Luong was also skeptical because she saw that Tieu Van did not resemble anyone in the family. She discussed with her husband to do a DNA test to dispel this suspicion.

The couple secretly took Tieu Van's hair for testing and it was true that Ms. Luong and Tieu Van were not related by blood.

Ms. Luong decided to find Ms. Ma to give her the DNA test results and claimed that their family had been given the wrong child. Before leaving, Ms. Luong left a sample of Tieu Van's hair and asked Ms. Ma to take it for testing to clarify the matter.

Finally, Ms. Ma brought hair samples from herself and the two girls for testing. The results showed that Tieu Van was her biological child, but the daughter she had raised for so long was not.

The two mothers met again to discuss how to resolve the situation so that their children would not be affected by this disturbance. When Liu learned the result, he knelt down to apologize to Ma and expressed his desire to reconcile with his wife.

Beliefs in marriage and rules for a happy marriage

Many couples don't truly appreciate trust until it's lost. There are little things you do every day that can build or take away trust.

So, reflect on the actions you take in your relationship, try to do more to foster trust and limit the actions that break trust.

Therapist, psychologist and consultant Kurt Smith, founder of Guy Stuff, advises thinking about what you might be doing that might make your partner suspicious, such as keeping your phone password secret, having your phone on you at all times, even in the bathroom, not saying where you're going, when you'll be home or about your expenses.

“If so, talk about it, identify some boundaries where each person can do better to maintain trust,” the expert says.

Many couples don't truly appreciate trust until it's lost. There are little things you do every day that can build or take away trust. Illustration photo

Besides, nurture love and do not ignore the basic principles below:

Transparent

Being honest and clear about your needs and desires is important for happiness. "Expressing yourself honestly builds trust and intimacy in a relationship," says Tahim.

If we are not transparent, we risk being emotionally incompatible with our partner. Relationships do not survive on positive emotions alone.

In fact, negative experiences often bring two people closer together. Transparency allows you to connect with your partner in an authentic way.

Don't rely on love alone

Sometimes love isn't enough. Los Angeles-based psychotherapist Dani Marrufo often reminds clients that there's more to a relationship than love and that relying on love alone can leave a relationship feeling unfulfilled.

If we choose our partners intentionally, the relationship becomes more than just a feeling, it has character and value. "Take time to determine why you are with this person.

When two people argue, you find yourself not loving your spouse anymore and being able to lean on the reasons why you married them is a support to get motivated through the conflict," says Dani.

Don't avoid uncomfortable things.

According to therapist, psychologist and consultant Kurt Smith, founder of Guy Stuff Counselling, one of the main reasons couples seek professional help is because of issues they ignore.

Many people put off conversations to resolve conflicts and frustrations, making the problem worse.

“We all want to avoid uncomfortable conversations or hurting our partners. However, most of us realize that avoidance is not healthy,” says Smith, who specializes in counseling men.

Therefore, experts advise setting a rule in the relationship that neither of you avoids uncomfortable things.

Then, start practicing this rule with some smaller tasks so that when needed, apply it to bigger tasks.

Express gratitude every day

We should pay attention to the big and small things our spouses do that enrich our lives.

Be grateful for the support they give you through your health scare, the gas they pump for you. Make expressing gratitude a daily habit.

“It’s a way to show love and support for each other. It also breaks the habit of complaining or expressing negative beliefs about each other,” she said.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/gia-dinh-tan-nat-vi-con-bi-trao-nham-luc-sinh-khien-chong-nghi-vo-ngoai-tinh-17225022211014157.htm