Tran Dang Dang Khoa is stopping in Bali (Indonesia) on his journey around the world by car - Photo: Facebook character
Regarding this issue, Tuoi Tre Online had an interview with Mr. Tran Dang Dang Khoa (from Tien Giang) - the first Vietnamese person to travel across 5 continents by motorbike, and he is currently on a journey around the world by car.
According to Mr. Khoa, social network users should only care about their own business and should not get involved or argue too deeply about matters that are not related to or directly affect them.
Expressing your ego online, what's the point?
* Hello Mr. Khoa. As someone who often uses social media platforms and has a high level of interaction, do you notice that many people nowadays seem to be too hot-tempered and hasty when it comes to cursing online, regardless of whether it is their business or not?
- Before the Internet, whether something was good or bad, right or wrong, only a small group of people knew about it. Since the Internet exploded, no matter what issue was posted online, the story would spread everywhere, without being verified, but many people still cursed it all over social media.
There are many people who want to be different and attract attention, so they often say the opposite of what has been proven, or like to participate in things that have nothing to do with them to express their voice in society. That could be a way for them to rise a little on social networks, or simply like to curse to relieve their hatred.
I have experienced being attacked on social media in some cases. For example, an administrator of a group took an article about me to complain and posted it on their group without citing the source. Many people thought I did it myself and cursed me a lot, but in reality, I was just a character in an interview.
Social networks are often likened to a double-edged sword - Illustration: UNSPLASH
* According to Khoa, why do many people, especially young people, get angry just by going online? What are the consequences for both sides after online arguments due to lack of composure?
- Sometimes young people who don't have much experience just think that they can say whatever they want, curse and that's it, but they don't know that their actions can have consequences.
The proof is that many people go online to badmouth companies or curse at others. When applying for a job, if the employer finds out that this person often has bad behavior online, no one will want to hire them.
In addition, this person's friends or colleagues will also feel uncomfortable and not want to contact or work with them.
Don't think that social networks are virtual so you can say whatever you want online. It's a different space, but not separate from real life.
Many teenagers spend a lot of time on social networks and like to express themselves online impulsively, which can be understood as their personality and also because they are too young. But the funny thing is that some people are older and mature, but their way of speaking and behaving still shows their impulsive personality, getting angry and challenging each other online.
It is normal to accidentally get into an accident on the street when there is a lot of traffic, but some people choose to make a big deal out of it, quarrel, and fight. Many people nowadays often have a problem with their ego, afraid of being judged by society, so they always have to express themselves in words and actions, from social networks to real life.
* People who have met Khoa find him to be a very calm person, making a big deal out of small things. But when he was younger, did he think he was hot-tempered, did he ever react hastily to a conflict?
- When I was young, I was also hot-tempered. But when I was young or a little older, social media was not as strong as it is now, so sometimes my hot temper did not have a chance to explode online. But now that I am middle-aged and have gone through many things, I can control that hot temper.
But this also depends on each person's personality. I only believe in what I have witnessed through many trips, or in life, and understand it. I choose to listen and debate if necessary with people who are better and know more than me in a certain field.
For example, when it comes to traveling, I usually only listen to those who have been there, traveled a lot, and know more than me. The rest have no need to argue with opposing opinions, want to cause trouble, or lead me into endless debates with knowledge that they have only heard somewhere but have no experience with.
Don't turn social media into a place of violence and risk.
Tran Dang Dang Khoa: Long trips help me understand that each person will always have their own point of view - Photo: Facebook character
* How did long trips, meeting many strangers, and having many collisions help Khoa become calmer?
- Through long trips and many experiences, I know that each person will always have their own point of view.
Thoughts and actions will be shaped by the living environment, culture, and people they come into contact with, so I think it's normal and I respect those differences.
I learned that happiness in life is when you come home after a day of riding in your own car, in your own space, and only care about your own business. As for things that are not related or directly affect your life and interests, don't pay attention.
Respect the differences in thoughts and opinions of others. When something happens online, we should just silently observe and verify it later, we should not get involved or argue too much.
* What advice do you have for staying calm when using social media?
- Spend less time online, say what needs to be said and share positive, happy values because social networks are full of negativity. Don't argue if you don't know the topic well, to avoid unnecessary arguments. We are real people, so there is no need to waste time arguing with people hiding behind a fake account with the purpose of aggression, attack, and then no one knows who they are.
Reading the book Good, Evil and Smartphone by author Dang Hoang Giang, I also sympathize. Participating in social networks will have to accept it as a part of the game, with both positive and negative. But if you know how to use it properly to serve your work and entertainment needs, you will feel comfortable.
* Does Khoa have any principles for himself when using social networks?
- Not exactly a principle, but I don't argue with people who I think don't understand the issue or the issue doesn't concern me. Basically, I don't argue online. If there's something, I meet up to discuss it privately, and I don't bring my problem to everyone to solve.
Personally, when I use social networks, I see it as a place to spread positive energy, good knowledge, and bring interesting and joyful things to everyone, not a place to argue and fight with each other.
I only follow groups or friends who are experts and knowledgeable in the field I am interested in. When it comes to hot news on social media, I only participate in issues that are constructive and discussion-oriented. As for stories that are posted to put down, curse, or label each other, I should skip them, because if I pay attention, it will not benefit me or lead me anywhere.
Do you have any rules for yourself when using social networks? Please share your secrets and stories or those of your loved ones to spread positive lifestyles and become wise users on the Internet. Please send your email to [email protected]. Tuoi Tre Online thanks you.
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