Studying away from home and sharing a room, young people should arrange their belongings neatly to avoid affecting their roommates - Photo: WHITE CLOUD
More than 1,100 comments, many of which sympathized and tagged friends because "it's similar to my situation when I was a roommate before", "it looks familiar", "it's like something I've experienced".
"See me, I'm moving out"
Looking at the photos of unwashed dishes, messy furniture, and gentle reminders from the poster, Ha Pham frankly said: "You're a co-host and you still try to live with them. It's good to move out. I'm sick of thinking about it."
Gia Vinh wrote: "Looking at the pile of dishes and pots makes me so angry". Hoang Yen expressed: "You can't even put the lid on the salt shaker after eating?".
Similarly, account N Bong suggested: "Just find someone else to share a room with. Don't you have the sense to say anything?" Friend Tien Tran wondered: "But the status owner still calls herself 'ba ba toi toi', how could she be so patient when meeting me?" "This person is actually kind, if she met me she would scold me, I'll move out," Hien commented.
Renting a room, finding a suitable roommate is also a headache - Illustration: WHITE CLOUD
Some of you think the status owner is too easygoing. The account Khung Long warned that being easygoing when living together creates people who don't know how to behave, and you yourself hate people who don't have this kind of awareness. Pham Linh joked: "You need to learn patience from this status owner."
Some of you think that we should ask this "naughty" person to move somewhere else, change roommates. Or install a camera to make the other person more aware.
The disaster of sharing a room and bringing your boyfriend home
More patient, Tuyet Tran said that if it were her, if her roommate was dirty, she would accept cleaning up. But if this person brings her boyfriend home, that would be unacceptable.
Similarly, Thao Vy commented: "Living together without being considerate. Living together and bringing a noisy boyfriend home, who can sleep?"
There should be an agreement on cleaning and hygiene when sharing a room so that roommates feel more comfortable - Illustration: WHITE CLOUD
Andrea Tran also suggested that either the status owner should clean up or the other person should wash the dirty dishes.
"If a girl lives dirty, has messy belongings, goes out dressed up and comes home messy, then I can't stand it. And also brings her boyfriend home to "film" action. Then let them stay there. Living together like this will only accumulate bad karma," this person was upset.
When reading the messages that only this friend reminded, like the room has a lot of ants, is dirty because the other friend left food everywhere, and the other friend didn't reply, Bang Trinh account was fed up: "Living together but thought you were living with a ghost. One person talks to themselves, the other is quiet as a clam. Like this, just move out after 3 days."
Cohabitation, agreement, compromise have a degree
Not only are they messy and dirty, many roommates also make their roommates bored because of their lack of thoughtfulness in daily life.
Ms. Anh Tho (27 years old, office worker in Tan Phu district, Ho Chi Minh City) said that she used to share a room with a female friend, but she couldn’t stand it when she stayed up late every night, made noise and left the lights on. Every time she was angry with her boyfriend, she would cry, sit there absent-mindedly and then her boyfriend would come to find her, call Ms. Tho to open the gate, call to ask about the situation…
"This friend often borrowed my clothes to wear, sometimes without even asking. After living together for a year, I felt frustrated so I said I had a new place closer to work and needed to move out," said Ms. Tho. Until the day she moved out, her friend still hadn't returned all the clothes she had borrowed from her because she hadn't returned from a trip.
According to Ms. Tho, if young people share a room, they must accept that there will be inconveniences. Before moving in, young people should make an agreement in advance, or state requirements such as keeping clean, not sharing personal belongings, etc.
"You should say it straight out: don't bring your boyfriend to your room. Lose his favor first, win his favor later, but if you let trouble happen later, it will be very tiring," Ms. Tho advised.
Some accounts, when commenting on the above complaining status, said that you shouldn't share a room with strangers, and agreed that you should find friends and acquaintances with similar interests and habits to make it easier to behave. When you feel that your roommate is too much, you should give your opinion, one of you should adjust or move out, but don't put up with it.
Moreover, sharing a room during the student and new working period makes it easier to sympathize with each other. But when working for a long time, with many pressures of life, and needing private space, we can consider living alone. The cost may be higher but in return we can rest comfortably.
Source: https://tuoitre.vn/o-ghep-ngan-ngam-ban-cung-phong-bay-hay-dat-ban-trai-ve-2024082608043656.htm
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