Love at first sight

Love at first sight

Love is always difficult to explain. Sometimes, just because of a look, a word, the two sides can ignore geographical distance, age, cultural differences, language,... to come together.

Nguyen Thi Thu Ha (born 2000, Ho Chi Minh City) and Han Chung Su (born 1980, Korea) are such a couple.

Thu Ha and her husband are 20 years apart in age.

20 years apart, born and raised in two different countries, the first time they met, they didn't even understand what the other was saying. However, they were still moved, still loved each other and decided to stick together for life.

Han Chung Su is an auto repair and maintenance engineer who currently runs a used car repair and sales shop. He is so engrossed in his work that he has no time to date and is still single at the age of 40.

Thu Ha is an optimistic, cheerful girl, especially passionate about Korean movies and music. Since her school days, she has had the dream of studying abroad in Korea.

In 2015, her family had an incident, Thu Ha had to drop out of school when she just entered high school. For the next 4 years, she did all kinds of jobs from factory worker, working for a milk tea shop, selling online,... to earn money to support her mother to raise her younger brother. Ha's dream of studying abroad in Korea also ended.

In 2019, introduced by friends, Ha decided to “try”. She met a few people but was not satisfied. “Coincidentally, my husband was also introduced to a few people by friends in Vietnam but was not impressed. It was not until he met me that he had feelings and so did I,” Ha said.

The couple fell in love at first sight

The couple fell in love with each other at their first meeting. Chung Su liked Thu Ha's bright smile, while Ha was impressed by his demeanor and courtesy.

After the meeting, the two decided to get to know each other. Chung Su stayed in Vietnam for a week to hang out with Thu Ha, then returned to Korea to work. He promised to come back to meet Ha's family 3 months later to discuss marriage, but the Covid-19 pandemic hit, and they had a long-distance relationship for nearly a year.

“In December 2019, we met for the first time. In July 2020, we registered our marriage. During that nearly 1 year, my husband and I only met each other once,” Ha shared.

During their long-distance relationship, they communicated via text messages and video calls. Chung Su's concern made Thu Ha feel warm. The two actively learned Vietnamese and Korean to understand each other better.

Even though there were times when they argued fiercely and it seemed like their relationship was broken, because they truly loved each other, they put aside their egos, gave in, and listened to each other.

Happy marriage

In October 2020, Thu Ha moved to Korea to live with her husband and his family. Nearly a year later, the couple held a dreamlike wedding. Ha's dream of experiencing Korean life and culture has come true.

Thu Ha's happy home

Thu Ha and Chung Su's age-gap marriage was supported by both families. Ha's parents were reassured to see that the Korean son-in-law was gentle and thoughtful. Her husband's parents were also very happy to have a well-behaved and polite Vietnamese daughter-in-law.

“My husband and I don’t care about the age gap. We have the same thoughts and outlook on life, so there’s no problem,” Ha said.

Thu Ha has given birth to two sons. She lives with her husband's parents and is currently studying Korean while helping her mother-in-law run a restaurant.

Ha's life as a daughter-in-law was very favorable. She was loved by her husband and her parents-in-law taught her everything meticulously.

From the restaurant back home, Ha did not have to do anything. Her mother-in-law took care of the cooking, housekeeping, etc. Both times she was pregnant and gave birth, she was taken care of wholeheartedly by her mother-in-law.

“Sometimes there are misunderstandings, but my mother-in-law teaches me gently, not harshly like what I thought about the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.

Moreover, my husband is a fair person so everything is resolved in a positive way," Ha shared.

Thu Ha and Chung Su's marriage is very smooth.

Although he doesn't say romantic words or express sweet emotions, according to Ha, Chung Su is a thoughtful and responsible man. Especially after having children, Ha sees her husband's thoughtfulness even more clearly.

Chung Su is willing to work hard so that his wife and children can have a comfortable life. Since getting married, he has put aside his personal interests to have time to take care of his wife and children. Their life passes peacefully every day, making Thu Ha cherish every moment.

“My husband and his parents-in-law are always the source of good things for me. He also cares about my family in Vietnam, sometimes taking his parents-in-law to Korea to visit so that I don’t feel lonely when I’m away from home.

As time goes by, life has its ups and downs, but we always try our best for each other,” Ha shared.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/co-gai-sai-thanh-lay-chong-han-quoc-hon-20-tuoi-yeu-tu-cai-nhin-dau-tien-172240930092208843.htm