Married at 77, girl believes that you are never too old to love

GĐXH - Meeting her husband who is over 70 years old completely changed her life.

Kat, 38, accidentally met Kevin King, 77, on a trip around Australia. The couple quickly fell in love, got married, and had children, to everyone's surprise.

Couple Kat and Kevin King.

Before that, Kat thought she was infertile and thought she would never be able to become a mother in this life.

"Our 39-year age gap is not appropriate in the eyes of many people, but because of that, we both have unexpected happiness. At first, we were just friends and I stopped by his beautiful car to cook. Then we shared a double bed together but nothing happened here.

It wasn't until the summer of 2007 that we met again in a supermarket. He accidentally bumped into me and I reacted quite violently, attacking, threatening and then leaving alone. After the argument, we kissed for the first time, became a couple and soon became a real couple," Kat recounted.

The 38-year-old mother said that Kevin proposed despite the age difference, and Kat said yes. However, it was not until the wedding day that Kat learned that Kevin was 39 years older than her, not 29 years older than she had previously confessed.

"The day before we got married, he told me the truth that he was 39 years older than me. He had been shaving to look younger for the past 10 years. But by that time, it seemed like this confession was too late. Besides, there was nothing to be upset about when I had fallen in love," Kat shared.

After 2 years of marriage, Kat was surprised to discover she was pregnant in the same place where she was diagnosed with infertility.

"Oh, it's a boy," the doctor happily announced. "Kevin is going to be a 70-year-old father."

Kevin King became a father at the age of 70.

3 ways to overcome the barrier of age gap love

The other half must be a companion with the same thoughts and views.

When it comes to love with age difference, if you are not experienced, you will not be able to understand.

Because of the age difference, not being able to do things like normal couples... will cause a lot of trouble.

Because of the problems that couples with age gaps encounter, when looking for their other half, both parties must have the same ideology and views.

Thanks to that, you can support each other, get rid of all your worries and overcome the age gap.

In a cross-age relationship, happiness is not easy. Illustration photo

Find common interests, respect, understanding and communication

If there is an age gap, you will more or less feel the generation gap. This can lead to frequent lack of topics to talk about, leading to breakups…

To overcome these problems, it is recommended that both of you have common interests. Even if there is an age difference, as long as you have the same interests, you can have fun together and not feel the generation gap.

Too big an age gap causes couples to have significant differences in knowledge, vision, perception, experience, etc., which can lead to emotional conflicts, but such differences do not necessarily hinder the success of the relationship.

Age is not the key issue, the issue is that couples understand and accept each other's different opinions due to age differences.

In fact, regardless of age difference, it is normal for couples to have different opinions.

Faced with the generation gap due to age difference and a series of arising problems, the solution still focuses on three principles: 'respect, understanding and communication'.

Financial Independence and the Elimination of Arrogance

Most couples with a large age gap tend to focus too much on "money".

Usually because of the age difference, the other party earns more, saves more...

But once the "money aspect" is overemphasized, even if love gradually disappears, it is difficult to separate, even if both are no longer happy because it has become a material relationship and no longer emotional.

In a cross-age relationship, the most taboo issue is arrogance. What is arrogance?

It is always thinking that you are better than the other person, and using your advantages to look down on the other person's shortcomings.

The older party has experience, while the younger party has more drive and energy. But if you handle it poorly, you will become the older party using your experience to 'teach' your partner.

The younger person thinks that the partner is not sensitive enough to accept new things, doing so is no way to solve the generation gap problem.

But if you know how to use your strengths to guide the other person to make up for their shortcomings, the two of you will improve each other, and the relationship will naturally become better and better, inseparable.

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