How is that woman now?

This couple fell in love in college and by 2024 have been together for more than 2 decades.

Recently, social media has been sharing many moments of two photos taken 11 years apart, showing the changes of a couple. At the age of 19, the two started dating, and by the age of 31, they were husband and wife with 2 small children. However, what has caught the attention of netizens, even causing controversy, is the beauty of the woman in the photo.

Many people are attracted by the image of this family after 1 decade.

While the man did not change much, even looking younger, the wife looked older, as if she had passed middle age. Her way of dressing, her hairstyle, and her skin all showed signs of time.

Below the post, netizens commented and argued. Many people said that the fact that a woman is "losing her beauty" in marriage shows that she is having an unhappy life, is too hard-working, and her husband does not share the housework.

Moreover, her appearance also shows that she is neglecting herself. Many women after getting married, having children and having their own careers are so busy that they don’t even have time to “look at themselves in the mirror”.

“Looking at a woman, you can tell how a man treats her”, “From girlfriend to boyfriend’s mother”, “Meaning that if a husband takes good care of his wife, his wife will look more beautiful. If he doesn’t take care of his wife and is inconsiderate, his wife with two children will look very miserable”.... are some of the comments from netizens.

There are also many skeptics, thinking that the photo at 19 years old is of a couple, while the photo at 31 years old is of mother, child and two grandchildren. A netizen wondered: "One photo is with the wife, the next photo is with the mother, so how can they age so quickly?"

They got married at the age of 26, after 7 years of dating.

In fact, the two photos above are actually of a couple born in 1983 from Guangzhou, China. The two shared their journey of love and changes over more than 2 decades of love and living together on Xiaohongshu - a popular social networking platform in China last September and quickly went viral, due to their differences and contrasts in appearance.

This account named “Kid & Rosansa” currently has more than 1.3 thousand followers. Here, the couple mainly posts pictures comparing each other’s changes over the years, marriage secrets,....

The pictures were taken when they were both 31-32 years old. At this time, the wife had just given birth to her second child and had gained weight.

The wife's current figure at the age of 40 looks much younger after successfully losing weight and taking care of her appearance.

Accordingly, the woman said that when both of them looked at the above picture, they could clearly see the difference in appearance. When walking on the street, many people also thought the couple were sister and brother or mother and daughter. However, she did not feel sad about this because in fact, she was very loved and cared for by her husband.

Even at the time of marriage, her biological mother was the one who objected because her son-in-law was too handsome, thinking that he was just taking advantage of her and intending to deceive her daughter: "You two are not compatible in appearance". However, in the end, she agreed because she saw that her daughter was too determined and now her mother has to admit that she was wrong. Her son-in-law is not only handsome but also has a good personality.

“I met him on my first day at university and was completely captivated by his looks. Then, thanks to my best friend, I got his phone number. We texted and talked constantly. Then we dated for 7 years before getting married, after graduating, working and having money.

However, at first my mother objected, saying: 'What's the use of being handsome? Even after you give birth, when you become old, he won't pay attention to you anymore.' But in the end she was touched by our sincere feelings ," the mother of two recalled and shared.

Both are still as passionate as when they first fell in love.

She said that in more than 2 decades together, including 15 years of living together and having 2 children together, her husband's love for her has never changed.

In response to opinions that he married for money, the woman frankly said: “I lost my job at the age of 38. I stay at home and my husband supports me. He is even willing to cook every day. After 15 years of marriage, he is always the one responsible for teaching and taking the children to school.”

For his part, he said that appearance is just a plus point, not everything.

In his eyes, his wife is a woman of character and deserves to be loved.

However, because there were too many negative comments about his wife's appearance and her health gradually declined after giving birth to their second child at the age of 30, he signed her up for a gym membership and weight loss program to change her appearance.

The wife changed her diet, combined it with exercise, gym, jogging,...

Now, at the age of 41, the wife looks younger, her face is slimmer and her skin is whiter and smoother. She also changed her hairstyle and fashion sense to "match her husband". The woman confided: "Now my children are in secondary school, I don't work so I have more time at home to take care of myself than before. My husband and I also often spend time traveling and enjoying life. You see, I look younger than before. But it's not because of hardship, it's because my husband is already handsome. It's called having good genes."

And I also want to advise everyone, don't think badly of handsome guys. Believe in your choice, see if they truly love you or not by looking at their actions, the way he picks up food for you during meals, how he takes care of you when you're sick,...", she added.

Currently, the couple lives happily with their two children in Guangzhou city, China.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-tan-nhan-cua-viec-lay-chong-sinh-con-qua-buc-anh-chup-cach-nhau-11-nam-nguoi-phu-nu-ay-gio-ra-sao-172250123143544942.htm