Between couples who have just fallen in love, there are always sweet things, vowing to love only each other. But once you have been in love for a long time or get married, things become different and many stories will happen. Among them, one of the most "painful" problems is the ex. At this time, many women say they don't care but in their hearts they really care. If you find out that your husband still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, will you accept it?
Women can react very differently when their husband still has an ex in his heart.
Xiao Tian and her husband met when they worked at the same company. Because of her strict upbringing, her husband was her first love. Her husband was sweet and loved her very much. But after getting married, she accidentally discovered a photo of another woman on her husband's cell phone. After questioning her, she found out that this was his ex-girlfriend. From her husband's eyes, Xiao Tian could clearly feel that her husband still had this ex-girlfriend in his heart. Even though her husband had told his ex-girlfriend that they were married and that they were no longer capable of it, and that keeping the photos was just a memory of their youth, this still made her feel very heartbroken, always feeling that her husband was not completely faithful to her.
The second person interviewed was Ms. Truong. She knew about this but did not care at all because her husband was very good to her.
She and her husband have a son and a daughter, a very good relationship, her husband is very responsible for the family. He treats her like a child, always takes good care of her, does all the cooking and laundry in the house. When mentioning her husband, her face breaks into a happy smile. She and her husband met in university, but they were not each other's first. But now the family is very happy and loves her husband very much, so Ms. Truong thinks there is no need to care about the past. "Because we know what it feels like to lose someone you love, we will cherish it more now," she said.
Everyone has a youth, whether man or woman. It is not unusual for a husband to have an ex-girlfriend and even occasionally think about her during the marriage. The most important thing is, in your husband's heart at this time, does he put you and his family first? If you are the number 1 priority in your husband's heart, what does it matter if his ex-girlfriend appears?
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Why won't my husband's ex-girlfriend "disappear"?
There are many people who have been “disturbed” by their husband or wife’s ex. These people may not want to come back and destroy the family’s happiness, but they hope your family will not be happy.
In fact, the reason is simply because they still cannot let go of both love and resentment in their hearts. As always, the lost fish is the big fish, the person missed is the best person that you will never have. The behavior of these characters sometimes reappearing, no matter in what capacity and how “disturbing” they are, only shows the problems still entangled in their hearts, and has absolutely nothing to do with you or your husband. What we need to do is just ignore them. Once those hurt girls make peace with themselves, let go of the old pain and personal selfishness, she will “disappear” on her own and everything will just be the past, as it always was.
As for girls or boys who are still attached to their exes even though they know there is no possibility anymore, we do not need to rush. Still missing and even waiting hopelessly is a normal psychology, especially when you once loved sincerely and truly. However, how you deal with that love and move on is important. And certainly, revenge is never the right path.
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Love is not selfish possession. Even if your love does not have a happy ending, it is not a waste or a pity, a resentment. You have memories and lessons, so that you can become more mature, know how to love more. What we should do is to give our more mature hearts wholeheartedly to the next person. Only then, everyone will have true happiness and love will fulfill its duty.
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