Attention - some thoughts

Living in a community, each person has different relationships. Looking from the perspective of human emotional life, caring about others, about things happening around you with a positive attitude is necessary for each person.

About the concern

In the family, parents care about their children. Parents spend more time and attention on their children’s eating, medicine, and education. Because, with proper care, the children’s health will be good. They will grow up quickly, be healthy, and their studies will progress rapidly.

Children also have concerns and care for their parents when they start to get old and sick. Elderly people really need their children and grandchildren to care, talk, and help with this and that. Elderly people want to have warm meals with their grandchildren, so they can have the opportunity to tell stories about their family in the past. Children also need emotional concern, understanding their parents' psychology, and sharing stories with their parents. When parents get old and weak, their children take care of them. But not all are the same. Some can spend more time taking care of their parents. Others can only help their parents financially but cannot take care of them directly. So, concern here is understood in different ways. There is concern, but each person shows it according to their actual situation.

Neighbors, in some cases, need to care for each other. In fact, there are many things that people living near each other can do to help each other in times of trouble, when facing unexpected incidents.

In the office, colleagues care about each other's work, about health so that if someone is sick, colleagues will quickly take over. In society, many people have different circumstances. Some have financial conditions, some have time conditions. Faced with difficult situations, there are people with better conditions who care about helping the elderly, the lonely, the disabled, and orphans with specific actions and sincere hearts.

About not caring

In the family, reality shows that not all families and relatives really care about each other. There have been cases where siblings do not get along, one does not care about the other. Some people encounter difficult situations, relatives are indifferent, and have to fend for themselves.

At work, each person is in charge of a part of the work or some parts of the work as assigned by the leader. For the most part, each person does their own professional work, at a level of proficiency, with different skills. Except for cases where friends are interested in your work in the spirit of helping each other when needed, there are also people who only do their own professional work. When asked about something related to others, people will receive the answer: "I don't know about that, I don't care!". Hearing the repetition of that answer a few times, how does the other person feel about it! But why does it have to be accompanied by "I don't care!". An answer that is not wrong about the task, but leaves the listener thinking that there is something not really intimate between people working together. Neighbors, it is not uncommon for each person to live in their own house, each person to take care of their own business. People do not care about the affairs of other families, other people.

Obviously, caring has many diverse manifestations in life. Living among relatives, colleagues, neighbors, people need to truly care for each other. Only then, people will think well of each other, of the good things they receive when living in a family, living in a community.

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