Having an affair with her ex-husband that no one would find out about

The story of the affair of a 41-year-old woman named Hiroko in Japan was told in the An An magazine. Accordingly, Hiroko met her ex-husband, Satoshi, 45, when she invited him to their daughter's wedding. This invitation was accepted by Hiroko's new husband, Yuta, 37.

According to Hiroko, she and her first husband divorced after both of them were heavily in debt due to a failed business. Meeting her ex-husband again after many years of separation, Hiroko admitted that she had fallen in love with Satoshi again. And it was Hiroko who rekindled the romance with her ex-husband, even though he had already remarried someone else.

"It would be a disaster for both families if our affair were discovered, so we were very careful. We didn't leave any evidence in the form of messages or photos, and we always met at my house when my husband was on a business trip, and my daughter moved out with her boyfriend, so it was convenient," Hiroko said.

Hiroko described the affair with her ex-husband as "exciting" and lasted for several months. When Hiroko's second husband became suspicious and checked his wife's phone but found no evidence, Hiroko, afraid of being exposed, informed Satoshi, who decided to end their affair as their daughter's wedding was approaching.

Satoshi also reminded his ex-wife that she had a legal husband, what happened between them was "merely entertainment" and that he no longer loved her since their divorce.

Ngoại tình với chồng cũ những tưởng không ai phát hiện, không ngờ chồng mới đã âm thầm chuẩn bị chiêu trả thù thâm độc- Ảnh 1. — A secretly filmed video between a wife and her ex-husband was played by the current husband at his wife's stepdaughter's wedding. Illustrative photo

It seemed like everything ended peacefully. But at Momoka's daughter's wedding, Yuta went on stage with the desire to give the guests and the bride and groom a special gift. Immediately after that, Yuta played a secret tape of his wife and her ex-husband.

While showing the clip on the screen, Yuta held the microphone in his hand and declared: "These two people betrayed me and had an affair."

After watching the video, Momoka cried and shouted, "Mom ruined my wedding!" Hiroko was also not surprised that Yuta chose to reveal her affair at her daughter's wedding because her relationship with Yuta had never been good.

After the incident, Hiroko's daughter disowned her mother and Yuta kicked her out of their shared home.

"Every day I have to move from one hotel to another to live. It's hard to find a job these days. You reap what you sow," Hiroko said.

Women's adultery and the painful consequences left behind

No sympathy from society

For women who have an affair, it is rare to receive forgiveness from their husbands and sympathy from society. Even with themselves, sometimes they always live in torment and blame themselves and do not forgive their own actions.

A woman who commits adultery is like signing a divorce paper that she has written herself. No matter how much a husband loves his wife, the image of her being intimate with another man will never be erased from his mind.

Ngoại tình với chồng cũ những tưởng không ai phát hiện, không ngờ chồng mới đã âm thầm chuẩn bị chiêu trả thù thâm độc- Ảnh 2. — Once women step into the path of adultery, they may lose themselves and face criticism from others. Illustration photo

Mental damage

When you are involved in an affair, you will always live in a state of anxiety and fear. You are afraid of being discovered, so you spend all day deleting messages, checking emails, etc. All day long, your mind only thinks about erasing traces, so your work is ineffective.

tarnish self image

When you are involved in an affair, people will look at you differently, not only with contempt and disdain, but also with scrutiny of your every move. Remember, even though they laugh and talk to you, in their hearts, they just want you to disappear from their sight.

Children are the ones who suffer the most

And the consequence is that the children have to suffer. The children are the invisible string that binds the two people. Even if they continue to live together, the feelings can never be as passionate as before. They even get angry, argue, and beat each other. And of course, no child wants their parents to become like that.

If you decide to break up, your children will be the ones who suffer the most because they will not grow up in an environment with complete love from their parents and will not receive the full love and care like other children.

Must be passive... divorce

Once a woman is "caught red-handed", she will face the risk of "passive divorce". After the divorce, if she does not have a stable job, her quality of life will inevitably decline significantly, not to mention if she has to raise a child alone and face public opinion, her life will be even more precarious.

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