Before I fell in love with Minh - my current boyfriend, I only had one ex-lover, Phuc. I never expected that loving this person in the past would haunt me and make me miserable like this later.
Phuc and I fell in love when we were in the same university. He was quite handsome and famous at school, so many people pursued him, including me. I was not outstanding in any way, but I was the girl that made other female students jealous because Phuc had a crush on me. He always praised me for being gentle, well-behaved, and very special to him.
We loved each other for 3 years. After graduating from school, Phuc applied for a job at an advertising company and had a close relationship with a female colleague. I discovered that he had cheated on me and decided never to forgive him, no matter how much he tried to win me back.
About a year later, I found out Phuc had a new girlfriend, but he still bothered me. He asked me to come back, but when I didn't, he turned around and yelled at me. I had to move house, change jobs, and cut off all contact to be able to "escape" from Phuc.
I never expected to meet my ex-boyfriend again this way (Illustration: Sina).
After my relationship with Phuc, I was afraid of love, afraid of meeting a guy who would deceive me, afraid of meeting someone who would manipulate, control and make things difficult for me. Luckily, I met Minh. He was like a light that lit up and warmed my soul, helped me learn to love again and want to be with a man again.
Minh is always gentle and warm with me, helping me every little bit in work as well as in life. The day Minh proposed to me, I did not hesitate to nod in agreement. I even silently thanked life for letting me meet Minh, bringing him to me. There will be no one more suitable and I want to marry Minh.
Since Minh is about to get married, recently, whenever his family has something to do, I have been very diligent in going there to introduce myself and let my relatives know me. Last week, there was a death anniversary in his hometown, and his children and grandchildren come back every year. This time, Minh brought me along to first know his hometown, then introduce me and ask for permission from the extended family about our marriage.
Everything was going smoothly, I was also integrating quite quickly with Minh's relatives when suddenly a shadow of a person approached. I was a bit startled because it seemed like this person had been observing me for quite a while. The moment I realized it was Phuc - my annoying ex-boyfriend, I was shocked. Why did he appear here?
It turned out that Phuc was the son of Minh's relative, roughly speaking, he was Minh's cousin. How could there be such an ironic coincidence? The person I wanted to forget the most, the person I didn't want to see the most in this life, was appearing at the death anniversary of my future husband's family.
Even though my relationship with Phuc ended a few years ago, looking at his demeanor, it seemed like he still didn't want to leave me alone. He kept talking sarcastically, even jokingly saying that he had known me before, making many people curious and asking questions.
The more I tried to avoid him, the closer Phuc got, deliberately starting a conversation and touching my hand. Unable to bear it, I asked Phuc what he wanted and he replied: "Why are you so cold and indifferent after meeting an ex? It turns out you found a "good match" and are ignoring me. My Minh is a good boy and a good student, I wonder if he knows about your past?"
Seeing Phuc's lack of goodwill and his nonsense, I immediately went somewhere else. I told Minh that I was very tired and wanted him to take me home early. To be honest, seeing Phuc again, I was both worried and scared, not knowing if he was going to do anything to me or not, and being Minh's relative, it was really awkward.
Somehow, Phuc got my phone number and kept texting me to invite me out for coffee. When I refused to answer, he sent me two photos of us kissing. Oh, he still has those photos, and said if I didn't meet him, he would send more to Minh.
I know Phuc's personality. He doesn't threaten, he does what he says. There's nothing wrong with being intimate with an ex-boyfriend, but in my case it's quite awkward. No one likes to see their girlfriend kissing another guy, even if it's an ex-boyfriend, especially if it's their cousin.
I am so angry and confused now. I don't understand what I did to get into this situation. Before, it was Phuc who deceived my feelings, but why does he keep following me and making things difficult for me?
I love Minh very much, I don't want to lose such a wonderful person. We are still preparing for the wedding. Should I tell Minh the truth? Will he feel embarrassed about our relationship because he is his cousin? Will his family object to this marriage?
What should I do to explain to Minh and deal with my ex-boyfriend? Please help me.
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