Fall in love with the sincerity of the "uncle"
For Cam Tu (born in 1997, from Long An), marrying a man 13 years older than her is so wonderful that if there is a next life, she "still hopes to marry him".
Her husband is Manh Canh (born in 1984, from Ba Ria - Vung Tau). They met through a matchmaker but became a couple thanks to the perseverance and sincere feelings of both sides.
Cam Tu and her husband are 13 years apart in age.
Before getting married, Cam Tu was a kindergarten teacher. In 2021, a colleague's husband introduced her to two people, one of whom was his boss and the other was an employee.
“I made friends and texted the employee, but he didn’t reply. At that time, I texted the boss and got an immediate response. That boss is now my husband,” Tu said.
After chatting online for a while, the couple arranged to meet in real life. Far from what she had imagined, Cam Tu met Canh with a bald head, wearing a T-shirt, shorts, and slippers.
Bad impression at first sight, Cam Tu cut off contact with him.
Cam Tu was a TikToker who attracted a lot of attention at that time. She admitted that during her youth, many boys pursued her.
Manh Canh originally intended to give up, but when he followed her online and saw that Cam Tu received attention and pampering from many young men his nephews' age, he decided to pursue her.
“That year, the Covid-19 pandemic was intense, we didn’t see each other much, we mainly texted online. It wasn’t until I got Covid-19 and had to quarantine with my sister for a month that our relationship was strengthened,” Tu said.
The couple got married at the right time when the Covid-19 epidemic was tense.
During that month, Manh Canh drove from Ho Chi Minh City to Long An many times to visit Cam Tu. Each time he came, he brought nutritious food for her.
One time, Manh Canh brought a large foam box containing 10 coconuts to Cam Tu, making her speechless.
“Even so, I still ignored him. It wasn’t until my sister said, ‘If you miss this man, you will definitely regret it,’ that I reconsidered,” Cam Tu shared.
After the quarantine period ended, Cam Tu officially accepted to be Manh Canh's girlfriend. He took her home to meet his family, and he also took the initiative to go to her house to greet her parents.
Cam Tu's father was strict about his children's love affairs, but at the first meeting he "picked" Manh Canh as his son-in-law. Thanks to that, the couple's love story with the age gap was much smoother.
“In May 2022, we will have the engagement ceremony, in June we will have the engagement ceremony, in September we will have the wedding at the groom's house, in November we will have the wedding at the bride's house and have the wedding announcement ceremony. Our wedding is very happy because we have the blessings of both families,” Tu shared.
Be pampered by husband like a fragile egg
Cam Tu and her husband currently live in Ho Chi Minh City. She stays home to take care of the children and works as a content creator. Manh Canh works in the information technology field.
Tu and his wife are very compatible in their married life.
Sharing about his marriage, Tu humorously said: “When I’m happy, I call him husband, when I’m angry, I call him uncle. He said I’m childish, so since he married me, he’s also become childish.”
Apart from disagreements in childcare, Cam Tu and her husband are fine. Tu is loved and pampered by her husband. They both set a rule that no matter how stressful work is, they will not bring negative emotions home.
“Since we got married, my husband has been the one who cooks and cleans the house. Everything in the house, from the broom to the cups, bowls, etc., was bought by my husband. It wasn’t until I got married that my baby was 7 months old that I learned to press the washing machine button, because before that, my husband did everything,” Tu shared.
Before giving birth, Tu's husband drove her to work every morning and picked her up in the afternoon. Now, she wakes up every morning to breakfast on the table.
Small nest of the couple
At noon, Manh Canh often takes advantage of his break to look after the children so his wife can rest. In the afternoon, after work, he rushes home to help his wife cook, look after the children, and do housework.
“I’m lazy about taking medicine. Sometimes when I have to take 7 pills, I secretly skip 3. So every time I get sick, he usually sits and watches me take the medicine before going to do other things.
My husband doesn't say sweet words but always cares for and loves his wife and children with practical actions," Cam Tu shared.
For the past two years, Cam Tu has lived in the care and concern of her husband and the respect of her in-laws. For her, that is the luckiest thing that has happened to her when she entered this marriage.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/co-gai-long-an-lay-chong-hon-13-tuoi-cu-gian-lai-doi-cach-xung-ho-172240915180053515.htm
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