It turns out that old age needs these 3 "blood and bone" supports the most.

This is the experience from real life that this old man has drawn to live a happy and joyful life in his old age, no matter where he lives or whether he is alone.

Different from the hustle and bustle of city life, Mr. Ly, now 80 years old, lives peacefully in an ancient residential area. When he was young, he was a big boss with a good income, so he thought he would live a comfortable life after retirement, but he did not expect to encounter so many obstacles.

Mr. Ly once thought that he and his wife would have days of farming, growing vegetables and raising fish without having to live with any children. However, his beloved wife suddenly passed away from a serious illness, leaving him alone.

Although his children were filial, they could not spend much time with their father because they were busy with work. And to solve the problem of old age care, Mr. Ly moved to live in a famous nursing home in the city.

He lived in a large, comfortable single room. However, life there was not as good as he had imagined. Although there were people taking care of him, he still lacked the warmth and happiness of a family.

Most of the people living around him were quiet and afraid to communicate with each other, making Mr. Ly feel bored as if he was forgotten by society. Every day he could only sit there, blankly staring at the sky outside the window.

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After a short time living there, he decided to leave. Mr. Ly realized that although the nursing home provided good care and security for the elderly, it was not what he wanted inside. At his age, he craved the companionship and warmth of family.

After leaving the hospital, he went to live with his son. His son and daughter-in-law were very filial and prepared a large room for him with delicious meals that suited his taste. However, after a while, he discovered a difference in the lifestyle of himself and his children and grandchildren.

His best friend had a habit of going to bed early and waking up early while his children often stayed up late. Mr. Ly liked quiet but his nephew often made noise at home. The difference in lifestyle and age made him feel suffocated and uncomfortable.

Moreover, he also feels uncomfortable when his family often has conflicts over the smallest things or parenting styles.

So after only a few months of living at his son’s house, Mr. Ly decided to leave. He realized that living next to his children and grandchildren was not always fun and happy. His grown children needed their own lives and living space.

He realized that a happy old age does not necessarily mean being surrounded by children and grandchildren, but being independent, happily spending time together will be the happiest.

And Mr. Ly also realized that to live a peaceful and comfortable life in old age, there are three most important things: a happy spirit, actively experiencing making friends and connecting with children and grandchildren in the right way.

So Mr. Lee began to diligently participate in senior activities in the community and make friends with like-minded people.

He often plays cards, plays chess, exercises,... and finds more joy and happiness every day. Moreover, Mr. Ly also learned how to maintain distance and be friends with his children and grandchildren. On weekends, his children and grandchildren will come home to eat with him and share stories about life.

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