Wife confused by husband's accusation of adultery then determined to divorce

Married for 18 years with two children, a boy and a girl, the marriage of Ms. Long (40 years old) and Mr. Ngo seemed to be perfect. Starting from nothing, after many years of opening a sand and gravel mining company, overcoming many difficulties, they now have assets worth hundreds of billions of dong.

From here, the incident happened to their family. One day, when returning from a business trip, Mr. Ngo opened the surveillance video at the factory and saw a man and a woman inside the car, and the car windows were steamed up. Ngo immediately accused his wife of having an affair.

He argued: "It's so cold, if no one in the car is doing strenuous activities, how can there be condensation on the windshield?"

Faced with her husband's accusations, Ms. Long was very confused. She was wholeheartedly taking care of her children and handling her work at the factory, and had absolutely no intention or time to have an affair. Furthermore, with the quality of the surveillance video, it was impossible to prove that the woman in the video was her.

But no matter how she explained, Mr. Ngo still insisted that his wife had an affair, kicked her out of the house, changed all the locks on the doors and windows, and insisted on a divorce. Her husband's cruelty made Ms. Long feel very hurt and suspicious.

Ms. Long was in pain when she discovered her husband was having an affair after a series of suspicious actions by him. Photo: Chinatimes

Not long after, she discovered the truth through her son's words: "These days, there is a woman who has been forcing dad to divorce." Realizing that her husband was the one having an affair, the wife secretly investigated and found intimate photos of her husband with a beautiful young girl on his computer.

Angry and hurt, Long went to the factory to confront her husband, but Ngo remained steadfast in his refusal to give in. After this argument, Long began to suspect that the couple in the surveillance video were actually Ngo and his mistress, who had planned to drive her out of the house.

Finally, after following her husband, Long found out the whereabouts and identity of the "third party" named Ly. When they met and talked, the two women chased and fought, and were both taken to the police station.

When she learned that her lover had been beaten, Ngo was extremely angry and declared that she wanted a divorce immediately. In the end, Ms. Long did not hold on any longer and decided to give up this marriage. However, she affirmed that she would reclaim all the assets that rightfully belonged to her.

"He is too heartless, too cruel, not worthy of what I have tried to build for him," Long said.

Cheating on your spouse can be easily detected through body language.

Psychologist Justin Gasparovic (USA) - founder of the consulting website The Enemy of Average, believes that body language (facial expressions, posture, emotional expressions) can help you decode part of a person's inner self.

This method is recommended by experts to be viewed only as a speculation, an initial sign to investigate further, not as evidence to accuse others of adultery.

You can refer to some identifying signs through the photos.

Stiff, closed posture

If the other person's body language looks stiff, it is a sign of discomfort.

"They may be hiding something and it's not who they really are," says marriage and family counselor Michelle King of Ocean Recovery Therapy Institute (USA).

Mariah Freya, founder of psychological counseling firm Beducated, says “closed” body language, such as crossed arms or a person turning away from you, is also worth noting. It’s not evidence of cheating, but it does indicate that the person is closing themselves off to your intimacy.

The way you take pictures can tell whether your partner is cheating or not. Illustration photo

Inconsistent facial expression

Pay attention to a person's facial expressions in different photos and answer the question: Do they change much? What is the trend of change?

“If they have a genuine smile in one photo but a forced smile in another, that could be a sign of inauthenticity,” says Michelle King.

This expert believes that the other person is trying to hide their true feelings. She notes that it is normal for a person to have different expressions, because it depends on their mood and many other factors at that time. However, if they change significantly, it can signal emotional conflict.

Don't smile with your eyes

Psychologists say not all smiles are created equal. They advise taking a closer look at your spouse's face in photos.

"A real smile is not only created with the mouth but also expressed through the eyes," said love and marriage expert Chris Gillis.

When someone is genuinely smiling, the corners of their eyes will crinkle slightly, creating crow's feet. If the other person constantly shows a forced smile in photos, it shows a distance in the relationship or this is an instinctive action to hide a secret or an affair.

However, smiling doesn't always lead to this situation. You can feel it as something wrong with the other person, they are not having real joy at that moment.

Keep your distance

Consultant Nia Williams - founder of dating service Miss Date Doctor - believes that the other person having a physical distance from you shows an emotional disconnect.

Both Williams and Gillis note that this is evident in photos. The spouse will stand or sit further away, leaning away to avoid physical contact with you.

Make eye contact with others

Gillis believes the eyes are the windows to the soul and they show up in most photos. Deceptive looks are easy to spot. They may avoid eye contact with you, indicating guilt or something to hide.

In worse cases, you'll notice them making eye contact with someone else. And if their bodies are leaning toward each other, that could indicate a certain level of intimacy. "However, you should always remember that this is not evidence of infidelity," Gillis emphasizes.

Distracted

In this situation, the other person is present in the photo but their mind seems to be elsewhere.

Expert Mariah Freya says you need to focus on what your partner is looking at. If your partner is constantly losing focus, it's a sign of disinterest or emotional exhaustion.

In some cases, you may also interpret this action as simply being bored or not enjoying having your photo taken. The most important thing is to share your observations with the person and give them a chance to express their feelings.

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