GĐXH - Runner-up Phuong Nhi's shares about love and criteria for choosing a life partner attract public attention.
After the engagement ceremony, information about the beauty attracted public attention, including what runner-up Phuong Nhi shared on the TEE & TEA Podcast program in January 2024 with Minh Trieu. In this conversation, the beauty mentioned many aspects of life, from self-development to views on family and love.
Runner-up Phuong Nhi
Phuong Nhi once frankly shared that, in terms of love, Phuong Nhi admits that she is a loyal person, valuing stability and safety in a relationship. However, she also accepts changes from both sides. The important thing is that the feelings for each other must be strong. She does not want to be with someone who has too many outside concerns and spends little time with her.
"With someone who has many other interests, such as enjoying having fun with friends more than spending time with me, I wouldn't consider that person as a long-term companion. I need security," the runner-up born in 2002 confided.
Contrary to the image of a jealous girl, Phuong Nhi affirms that she trusts her lover if they trust her. She is cautious in relationships and needs time to build trust. However, once she trusts, she will devote all her heart to that relationship.
" I'm the type of person who 'takes time to trust' so I need time to be able to trust someone. I don't always invest in a relationship, because I have many other concerns. But once I trust them, I will spend a lot of time and effort on them," Phuong Nhi said in the program.
The runner-up born in 2002 also shared more about the criteria for choosing a life partner, which is someone who has the will to progress and ambition, who can motivate her to develop. She wants a relationship that progresses together, not accepting stagnation. She also revealed that she likes guys who know how to coax and are willing to listen and talk to her.
"I am attracted to people who are ambitious and progressive. If I am with them, they will push me. If I am standing still and they are moving forward, I don't want to go with them. Or if I am moving too fast and they are standing still, it won't last long ," she confided.
How to recognize ambitious and progressive men?
Phuong Nhi's sharing is also the thoughts of many girls when choosing a life partner. Because, a man with a progressive spirit, he will know how to love, take care of you, try to bring you a better life. If you choose a rich man, but has no progressive spirit, only lives on his parents' assets, all day long only knows how to party and hang around. One day when his parents are no longer around, will he be able to shoulder that career on his own?
Or he puts it on the brink of bankruptcy, and he just cries out to heaven, laments his fate, instead of trying to start over, he drowns his sorrows in alcohol, always thinking he is unlucky. Is your life happy then?
Therefore, when choosing a life partner, the most important thing for women is to choose a man with a progressive spirit. But the problem is how to recognize a man without a progressive spirit to avoid him. Let's refer to the following ways of thinking:
1. Look at his sense of responsibility
To evaluate whether a man is ambitious or not, look at his sense of responsibility towards his work, this is the most important factor. A man with a high sense of responsibility has motivation and a clear direction in his work, only then can he develop his career.
So a man without ambition is an irresponsible person, always relying on others. When assigned a task by his boss, when he encounters difficulties at work, he does not think of a way to solve the problem, but only finds other people to complain to. Such people are people without ambition, their future is not very bright.
Therefore, when encountering an irresponsible man, women should find a way to stay away, or they will encounter difficulties in the future.
2. Look at his attitude towards life and current job.
Nowadays, many young people are always satisfied with the present, some feel that their current life is too good, and there is no need to ask for too much. They are always satisfied with what they have, some even pat themselves on the back and say that they are too talented, there is nothing left for them to strive to conquer. This is a typical manifestation of men who do not have the will to progress.
Ambitious men are not easily satisfied with their current life. They always feel the need to try harder. They feel that the world still has many interesting things to discover.
3. Look at his ideal career goals
When people are born, everyone wants to become a talented person, a person who is useful to society, and studying is also the best way to escape poverty. No one is born knowing everything. In this vast world, we need to constantly strive to learn, like Lenin once said "Study, study more, study forever", it is never too late to learn. This is a manifestation of people with the will to progress.
For them, every day, every age, every time, they need to study, improve their knowledge, and improve their skills to perfect themselves. "Learn more, learn forever" does not stop at learning from books, but also has to learn more knowledge from outside, only then can we reach out to the world.
People who do not have the will to progress do not have such thoughts. Just mentioning studying, opening books makes them feel "dizzy". Therefore, they cannot go further in their thinking as well as in their career path.
4. Do you think about giving your family members a better life?
The motivation for men to try harder is that they always want to bring a better life to the people they love. This is also their biggest goal, once they have a goal, they will strive to complete that goal. Therefore, a man who has such a thought proves that he is a person who lives with great responsibility for himself, his family and society, this is definitely a person with ambition.
There are men who always think, each person eats their own food, each person does their own work, everyone has hands and feet, everyone works, no need to worry too much about their children's future lives. They only do business in a day-to-day manner, work as much as they can, have nothing to save for the future, and never think of family as a goal to strive for. When you meet someone who thinks like that, it's best to stay away, because he is definitely a person with no ambition to improve.
5. Are you lazy at work or in life?
A man with ambition is a man full of courage, working hard to create a solid economic foundation and take care of his family.
There is a lazy man, who does not care about work, quits his job at the slightest thing, jumps from one company to another, when he comes home he does not do housework, or likes to ask his mother for money to take his girlfriend out. When you meet a man like that, you need to reconsider the relationship between you and that man. Because ambitious people never let their minds be idle, and they are always financially independent. Outside of society, they are good people, when they come home they know how to help take care of the family, that is a truly ambitious man.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/a-hau-phuong-nhi-tho-lo-bi-thu-hut-boi-nguoi-co-y-chi-cau-tien-va-tham-vong-lam-sao-de-nhan-ra-dan-ong-nhu-vay-172250119100407577.htm
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