Recently, Minh Nguyet, the wife of People's Artist Tu Long, attracted the attention of the online community when sharing how to respond when being slandered and made up.
Minh Nguyet, Tu Long's wife, learned to let go of negative things about herself to be more peaceful.
She confided: "I am kind to people not because of who they are, but because of who I am. I have been talked about and made up even when I did nothing, or when it was not a big deal. Someone asked me why I didn't respond, didn't hint, didn't talk one-on-one, how people treat me, I have to pay back the same? I kept quiet, because if I did, I wouldn't be gone. Instead of arguing loudly, I just let them go."
Tu Long's wife shared that there are people who hate me, both familiar and unfamiliar. They hate me because of inappropriate words and actions, and they can also hate me because of different perspectives on life: "I have been cursed at. I have been told I am fake, sometimes. The words are extremely negative and sarcastic. In the past, I did not accept when people scolded me, spoke ill of me, or gave me negative looks. I could not stand it. Sometimes I argued back, sometimes responded with equal negativity, sometimes ran after me to explain, everything. That I am not that kind of person. That I am not fake... Trying and trying. In the end, they still live like that, not that I will be someone else. It turns out, the fault is not mine."
Through such experiences, Minh Nguyet realized that reacting strongly does not bring anything in return, and living kindly and gently will definitely bring more peace. She learned to let go of negative things about herself to be more peaceful.
"Because I live like that, live as myself, for myself, act according to my own reason, so now I am much better. And I always believe that I am a good person, I don't have to force myself to explain to anyone, because those who want to understand will understand, living kindly is to have a peaceful life" , People's Artist Tu Long's wife expressed.
The happy home of People's Artist Tu Long.
Minh Nguyet is a lecturer in the theater and cinema department of the Military University of Culture and Arts. She is 12 years younger than her husband and has a beautiful appearance and a gentle personality. After 6 years of marriage, the couple has two beautiful girls and an adorable boy. People's Artist Tu Long has repeatedly expressed his pride and happiness in having a thoughtful, capable wife who knows how to behave.
Minh Nguyet herself always thinks: "I always try to spend all my time with my family and arrange my work in the most scientific and reasonable way. Life always has surprises and interesting things, but at least at this time I am confident that I have brought the best to my husband, children and my small family."
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