A warning about behavior for young artists

The incident of singer Dinh Trang - runner-up of Sao Mai 2013 in chamber music "accusing" 3 former students of being ungrateful has been causing a stir in public opinion in recent days. Reporters contacted Dinh Trang and the female singer said that she has been very sad and heartbroken in recent days.

Dinh Trang was "shocked" by Lan Quynh's flip-flopping attitude.

Previously, on the evening of October 11, Dinh Trang posted a long article on her personal page, in which she said that she had helped three young singers Lan Quynh, Ha My, and Minh Man when they participated in the Sao Mai 2022 contest. However, after only one year, these people created a private chat group and gave her derogatory and sarcastic words towards the very person who had taught and helped them.

Dinh Trang said that after she posted an article sharing the "heartbreaking truth" about her three students, two of them, Lan Quynh and Minh Man, texted the female singer to apologize and asked to have the article removed or their names removed from the article.

Lan Quynh sent an apology message via phone to singer Dinh Trang.

Lan Quynh apologized to Dinh Trang via text message and admitted her mistake because she was young, naive, competitive and did not understand things. This will be a big lesson in her life. After all, she hopes Dinh Trang will delete the post or remove her name from the article.

Reading this message, Dinh Trang felt that Lan Quynh's apology was not really sincere. However, Dinh Trang thought about removing the post.

However, on the morning of October 13, Lan Quynh posted an "Apology" on her personal Facebook page with the following content: Lan Quynh apologizes to the public for "the information that affected everyone's mood". She also said that she was wrong for her inappropriate behavior and "would like to learn deeply from my own mistakes".

In particular, below the article, Lan Quynh affirmed: "The person I have to apologize to if I have "bitten the hand that feeds me" is my teacher - Deputy Head of the Tan Nhan Vocal Department. But she is the person I respect, who taught me for the past 3 years of study, I have never betrayed her. As for the person who slandered me, claiming to be my teacher and accepting me as a student, aiming to bring me down, draining my spirit, honor and economy, the law will deal with them."

This move made singer Dinh Trang even more surprised by the "inconsistent" attitude of her former student: "I was very shocked by Lan Quynh's attitude and behavior. It's bitter when those are the people I put my heart and hope in " - the female singer shared with VOV.VN reporter.

By noon on October 13, Lan Quynh had locked her personal Facebook account. We tried to contact Lan Quynh many times by phone but could not get through.

Text messages exchanged between Dinh Trang and Lan Quynh about work

A warning about behavior and ethics for many young artists

Following the above incident, journalist Ngo Ba Luc expressed his opinion: In life, with any profession, people need to learn to be human before learning to do the job. Learning to be human means learning kindness, humanity, modesty, gratitude and countless other good things.

Especially for artists, who work in the field of art, orienting towards truth, goodness and beauty and always aiming for good human values, having a great influence on the public and making many young people follow suit, it is even more necessary to learn to be a good person before learning the profession.

Journalist Ngo Ba Luc affirmed that gratitude is extremely important in this life. Remember that today's success, in addition to your own talent and efforts, is also the result of the education, help and opportunities created by many people who have done for you. If you are ungrateful, you will gradually lose the help of others and the opportunities to practice your profession.

"In this life, no one is perfect, and everyone can make mistakes. The important thing is to realize that and correct your mistakes to become a better person. This incident is a warning to many young people about how to behave in relationships today," emphasized journalist Ngo Ba Luc.

The incident of singer Dinh Trang "accusing" 3 former students Lan Quynh, Minh Man, Ha My is causing a stir in public opinion.

Music critic and musician Nguyen Quang Long said: Folk singing has a very good saying : "Love in a moment, meaning lasts a hundred years". Studying a whole course, a year, a month, a day, or even just indirectly listening to a work or reading a good idea that helps you "open up" something is also something very precious, worthy of being honored as a teacher.

"Older people tend to feel sorry for themselves, while young people want to assert their personality, so they easily encounter conflicts. In life, everyone will make mistakes, not just once but many times. We have to accept it as inevitable, even though no one wants to fall into that situation. Sometimes young people are too confident, leading to inappropriate actions, which need to be reminded. But reminding to improve, not to destroy.

I hope that young people have sincerity, know their mistakes and are grateful, even if it is just a teacher in a sentence, a piece of advice in the past that is very far away but it helps me to be better. And so, I am waiting for a truly sincere sharing from the young people in the recent scandal. And when that happens, I hope everyone will consider this a lesson in behavior and put it somewhere in each person and continue to welcome young people with artistic activities" - musician Nguyen Quang Long shared.

Kim Nhung (VOV.VN)

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