In the first years of our marriage, my husband and I faced many economic difficulties. Not wanting to live in poverty for the rest of our lives, my husband was determined to go abroad to work. At that time, my mother had a gold bracelet worth about 5 taels, and my husband asked to borrow money to go abroad. But my mother did not agree because it was a gift from my grandmother to my mother on our wedding day. My mother wanted to keep it and give it to her daughter-in-law later.
I remember one time my mother was seriously ill, the family had no money for treatment, my father wanted to sell the gold bracelet but my mother did not let him sell it. In the end my father had to borrow money everywhere to treat my mother.
Unable to borrow gold from his mother-in-law, my husband was very angry when he had to borrow money from outside and pay interest every month. My husband earned a lot of money abroad but sent it to his wife only a little bit each month. The money he sent back was not enough to support the children, so I had to ask my grandmother to look after the children so I could go to work.
After many years working abroad, the husband earned a decent amount of money and returned home to buy land. Thanks to the times, land prices increased day by day and he became rich from real estate trading.
When he had money, he expanded into the rice business. My family's economy improved rapidly but I was not happy.
The husband makes a lot of money but each month he only gives his wife enough for living expenses. As for the children's education, he pays directly to the teacher or gives the children money to buy school supplies.
He spent billions to build a house for his grandparents and gave his siblings 800 million each to build a new house. My maternal grandparents' house was dilapidated, I wanted my husband to give them some money to repair it, but he reminded me that my maternal grandparents did not lend me gold and said he had no responsibility to help his wife's family.
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I'm so sad, it happened almost 20 years ago but he still holds a grudge in his heart. I don't know when he will forget.
Last Sunday, my husband celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary in a grand manner. At the wedding, he gave me a savings book worth 5 billion VND. Everyone at the wedding praised me for being lucky, being loved by my husband and receiving billions of VND.
After the anniversary, I sat down and talked with my husband. This year, my grandparents are over 70 years old and in poor health, but they still have to grow vegetables to sell at the market. I hope my husband will give them 1 billion from the 5 billion VND book he gave his wife.
Before I finished speaking, he sneered and said:
"I gave you the 5 billion savings book just for show. Take it out so I can keep it. You and your parents are the same kind of people who only want to eat other people's things and not give them back. So don't expect to get any money from me."
My husband can scold me all he wants, but he cannot insult my parents. Now that my children are grown up, I have lived with my husband for so long, "all talk and no action", I have suffered enough humiliation. Even if I live the rest of my life, I will not be able to spend the money my husband earns.
Finally, I gave him the divorce papers and asked him to sign them. I said I was tired of my husband holding grudges against his parents-in-law and calculating every penny with me. However, my husband did not sign the papers and said that I did not have the right to leave him. If I did, only he had the right to say the divorce first. I was really stuck in this marriage.
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