The incident happened in Wuhan, Hubei Province (China). Images circulating on Chinese social media show the man crying, beating himself, and yelling on the street when he discovered his wife was cheating, according to Jiaodian Video.
"You abandoned your family. You don't care about me anymore. You ignore our children, ignore me. All you think about now is your dates. So why did you marry me?", he said.
Meanwhile, the wife stood next to her husband, appearing very calm. She pointed at her husband several times but it was unclear what she said.
The man cried and blamed his wife for having an affair on the street.
Words were exchanged, the couple argued in the street. The husband seemed to lose control, started hitting his head and stomping his feet. "I can't live anymore, I don't want to hear another word," he shouted.
Many netizens expressed sympathy for the man. But some said he shouldn't have acted like that, and should think about why his wife became like that.
- "He's been holding it in for a long time. But there's really no need to hurt himself like that";
- "The wife is the opposite, she is completely indifferent. It is clear that she has no feelings for him";
- "Let her go, my friend. It's better to hurt once than to make each other suffer again";
- "If you know she is having an affair and doesn't care about you and the children, do you think this marriage should continue? I think you should think about why your wife became like that";...
5 actions of husbands 'pushing' their wives into the arms of others
In a recent article on FamilyShare, Mexican writer Ruth Huppe argues that men are not the only ones who go out looking for what they are not getting in their marriage. When a wife is humiliated, abused, or ignored, she may seek comfort in the arms of another man.
Ruth Huppe lists some of the reasons why a woman falls in love with another man, and suggests what husbands should do to prevent such a disaster:
Lack of romance
A bouquet of flowers, a note on the fridge, a midday call to tell her how much you care. Women always appreciate these gestures. Don't forget the intimate affection. You don't have to overdo it because your wife will be touched by the simple things you do for her.
Your lack of attention can make her feel terribly lonely. Illustration photo
Abandoned
If your job is stressful, remember that taking care of a child is just as tiring. Leave your worries, stress, and anger at the door and be proactive and ready to help your wife when you get home.
Lonely
Most women love to talk, so if you don't spend at least 5 minutes a day listening to her, she won't want to talk to you. Your lack of attention can make her feel terribly lonely. If you have to travel a lot for work, make sure your long-distance relationship is fun and romantic.
Furious
It is not fun to be on the receiving end of your spouse’s frustration and anger. If she finds herself in that state often, she will tend to look for a more relaxed relationship. Learn to manage your emotions. If you are upset with your wife, wait for some time until you are completely calm to talk and analyze the situation with her. When you make a mistake, do not blame your wife, be brave to apologize to her.
Lack of support
If you want your wife to be independent and have a social life outside the home, you need to support her. She won't be able to leave her children if you're not willing to babysit them. Encourage her to pursue her dreams. If she wants to develop her career, she needs your full support to pursue her decisions.
Look, if your spouse is lonely, disappointed or depressed, you need to do the best for her, to show her how much you love her. A good wife always sacrifices her life for her family. If you want to maintain a long-lasting marriage with your wife, you need to learn to listen and show affection to her.
Now, you are her life.
Give her more than you expect to receive and don't ask for more than you are willing to give. Respect and love will help your marriage last for years. My advice is to pay attention to your wife every day, because if you don't, she may look elsewhere.
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