'A day of doing nothing' is the March 8 gift women like the most

On March 8, men are busy looking for expensive gifts to show their love to their wives, mothers, and girlfriends. But sometimes, what women want most is just a day of doing nothing.

'A day of doing nothing' is the March 8 gift women like the most - Illustration: AI

Many women share that even though they receive flowers and wishes on March 8, no one does the housework for them.

March 8th gift is a true holiday

Ms. Nhu Binh (35 years old, Da Nang) said: "Every holiday, I receive a big bouquet of flowers from my husband, but before I can enjoy it, I have to cook and clean like every other day. When I put the bouquet on the table, my child calls for her mother, and my husband asks me to do this and that. If I could choose, I would just wish for a day when I don't have to do anything, can sleep in and do what I like."

This year, March 8th falls on a weekend, and on forums, many women confide that the most meaningful gift is a full day of rest. They just hope not to have to wake up early to prepare breakfast, not to have to clean the house, not to be busy taking care of the children.

Being able to sip a cup of coffee, watch your favorite movie or go out with friends without interruption is already a blessing.

On social networks, many viral clips record the scene of a wife receiving a large bouquet of flowers from her husband, but before she could enjoy it, she had to rush to clean up.

Or the mother who was surprised by her son with "fireworks" and flower petals all over the floor, only to be left alone to clean up the "crime scene".

These videos quickly attracted attention, with many people agreeing: "The most meaningful gift for women is a day of doing nothing."

Besides, there are also women who like to turn March 8 into a special occasion for the whole family to go out together, have dinner or receive a delicate gift.

Ms. Thuy Linh (28 years old, Ho Chi Minh City) shared: "It is true that a full day off helps women feel appreciated, but if they have to clean up afterwards, it is even more tiring. The most important thing is not just a day off, but the real sharing from the family.

If husbands and children share housework, women will no longer feel like they have to pay twice as much for a day off. Understanding and companionship from loved ones is the most meaningful gift."

"So easy yet so difficult"

Some men initially think that letting their wives take a day off is a simple matter. But when they do everything themselves, they realize that it is a real challenge.

Mr. Phuoc Trong (35 years old, Hue City) said: "I once told my wife to rest and let me do everything. But after only half a day, I was exhausted. After finishing cooking lunch, the baby was crying and the house was a mess. In the end, I still had to call my wife to help. Only then did I understand how hard women's unnamed work is."

Anh Quoc Bao teaches his son to help his mother with housework every day, especially giving his mother a day off on March 8 - Photo: NVCC

Mr. Quoc Bao (38 years old, Ho Chi Minh City) believes that to make March 8 truly meaningful, in addition to a small, suitable gift, he always lets his wife have a full day off.

"A man's preparation does not stop at words but also requires actions. Don't just say 'you should rest' but proactively arrange everything, from meals to taking care of the children.

If the sharing of responsibilities happens every day, women will not feel overwhelmed and do not need a day of 'rest' to compensate. Not everyone likes to take a complete break, some like to go out, some like to receive gifts. The important thing is to understand and meet her wishes."

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/mot-ngay-khong-lam-gi-la-mon-qua-8-3-phu-nu-thich-nhat-2025030710294717.htm