GĐXH - She was very happy to have a satisfactory hairstyle, but the joy was short-lived, she was severely scolded by her husband for the "crime" of wasteful spending.
Before the Lunar New Year, Ms. Huang in Huludao, Liaoning Province, China decided to spend a lot of money to get her hair done for the New Year. She thought that if she styled her hair early, her hair would look more beautiful and natural by the New Year.
Ms. Hoang spent 680 yuan (about 2.3 million VND) to get a new hairstyle at a famous local hair salon.
The result made her extremely satisfied. However, the happiness did not last long, this woman was severely scolded by her husband for the "crime" of wasteful spending.
The husband then dragged his wife back to the hair salon and demanded a refund. He said he only earned 4,000 yuan (nearly 14 million VND) a month and could not accept his wife spending 680 yuan just to get her hair done.
In a very harsh and loud voice, the man said that he worked to support the family, his wife just stayed at home so her hair didn't need to be beautiful.
The woman was severely scolded by her husband for "wasting" money because she spent 2.3 million to get her hair done to celebrate Tet. Illustrative photo
During the entire time her husband argued with the hair salon owner, Ms. Hoang didn't know what to do. She just said that she really liked her new hairstyle and then quietly stroked her hair, looking at her husband helplessly.
The husband got angrier and angrier as he talked. He was so agitated that he wanted to cut off his wife's newly done hair.
The salon owner quickly intervened: "Calm down", but this sentence was like pouring oil on the fire. Ms. Hoang's husband threatened to call the police, causing the business here to stagnate.
The shop owner was also very stubborn, declaring that he could cut off all of Ms. Hoang's newly styled hair but absolutely would not refund her money.
Unable to do anything, the man finally had to drag his wife home.
The incident was posted on the media and immediately became an extremely hot topic of discussion, with many opinions.
Many people criticized the husband's disruptive behavior due to his over-excitement, while many sympathized with his anger and financial burden.
Most netizens also supported the hair salon's handling of the situation, while blaming the wife for spending money thoughtlessly and not appreciating her husband's hard work.
On the other hand, many opinions say that women should have jobs to generate income and earn their own money so that others will not control their spending and fall into embarrassing situations like the above.
6 spending mistakes women often make
Spending indiscriminately and without a specific plan makes women's initial efforts to be frugal meaningless. Illustrative photo
"Eyes open and eyes closed" with the money you have
Most women try very hard to control their own and their family's spending.
They count every penny at the supermarket, keep a record of daily expenses, and even get upset with their husbands if they happen to overspend a little.
However, there are times when they spend recklessly, without a specific plan, making their initial efforts to be careful meaningless.
Of course it's right to control all your spending, but you also need to think about how to distribute your income wisely.
It's best to deposit 10% of your salary directly into your bank account and spend the rest according to your monthly plan.
This will help you avoid having to "tighten your belt" during the month and have some savings for a rainy day.
The misconception of "buying cheap"
Every woman knows 101 ways to save money. But that doesn't mean you can cut your expenses to the bare minimum.
Cheap things will soon need to be replaced or repaired, and you will inevitably have new expenses.
In general, tightening your belt is a good way to go, but it's certainly not a long-term strategy for managing your budget.
Forced into certain boundaries, a person will eventually break or never break out of them.
So, to stay away from financial shortage, better think of ways you can earn more.
All yours is ours
It is a mistake when the family has a savings account in the bank, the husband's name is on it and only gives you money for daily expenses, and all the money you earn goes into it.
Worse, almost all the assets are in his name, which shows your dependence on your husband in the family.
Be more sober and realistic about personal savings. A family budget is a great idea, but it should not be the end of your own interests.
You also need to be proactive and financially independent to do what you love.
Never stop sacrificing
British sociologists have been shocked by research showing how single women are richer than married women, even when they have the same income.
In other words, single women have more money. The truth is, women often pour everything into their families and refuse to buy even small things for themselves.
The same behavior is not common among men. For men, single or married, they always have some savings for personal expenses. Women should learn to do the same.
Fun loving
Your colleagues invite you to spend millions on an office party, or your friends invite you to a night out at a very fancy place.
Constantly accepting such invitations will have a negative impact on your budget.
There are a few ways to deal with this. First, you can give a valid reason for the refusal.
Remember, directly explaining that you "need to save" won't make you look bad in the eyes of others.
Of course, this is easier said than done, but it is better to spend money just to please others. A very strict rule applies here: spending more than you have leads to poverty.
Impulse shopping
Many women find ways to overcome negative emotions through shopping. The fact is, you may not even notice the moment a fun shopping trip turns into a shopping addiction.
Of course you can absolutely relieve stress this way and encourage yourself with a new item you've been dreaming of buying.
However, buying everything you see during times of psychological uncertainty will not be beneficial at all.
When you go shopping like this, you can easily be lured by marketing gimmicks, including discounts and promotions.
Low quality goods will cost you more in the future. Be smart, don't buy impulsively.
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