After eating, I left the class group!

Mr. Ly was looking forward to the class reunion but in reality the reunion did not go as he expected.

A man's post about class reunions was posted on social platform 163 (China)

In recent years, class reunions have become very popular. Whenever there is an opportunity, classmates organize class reunions.

However, many people realize that class reunions today are no longer as simple as before, even mixed with many factors of interest or even become a place to show off and build relationships.

Recently, I received a message from an old friend, the main content was about the class reunion. This was supposed to be a happy occasion, but after the reunion, this friend felt very angry and decided to leave the class group immediately.

My friend, Mr. Ly, shared that recently, he attended a class reunion after many years of graduation with his old classmates. Because the number of participants was quite large, about 23 people expected, the classmates agreed to apply the form of dividing the cost equally.

Because he works far away, this time he returned to his hometown, Mr. Ly was very happy to have the opportunity to attend the class reunion after a long time without seeing old friends.

Before coming to the reunion, Mr. Ly was very much looking forward to it. However, when he arrived at the reunion location, Mr. Ly was very surprised because the number of participants was not only 23 but up to 52 people.

What made Mr. Li angry was that the reunion, which was supposed to be a gathering of old friends, was made unnatural by the presence of strangers. The conversations were no longer the same as before, everyone focused on showing off and comparing themselves. After the reunion ended, Mr. Li decided to leave the class group.

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When attending a class reunion, you can completely express yourself in a more subtle way without having to show off or brag.

We cannot deny that nowadays, whether it is a class reunion or any gathering, there are more or less people who want to share their achievements.

However, smart friends always know how to "express themselves subtly".

So how to impress others without showing off? You can practice cultivating knowledge, practicing your comprehensive skills and creating a confident demeanor.

Learning and improving knowledge, practicing comprehensive skills are very important in developing one's career. In fact, learning and improving comprehensive capacity can not only be done while still in school, but also continue to be cultivated and practiced throughout the working process.

When you have enough knowledge and solid skills, you will naturally become more confident, and others will also notice that demeanor without you having to emphasize or boast.

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What is the real meaning of a class reunion?

In fact, if you've ever attended a class reunion, you'll find that the ones right after graduation are the most well-attended.

In the following years, many of you will not attend the reunion anymore. Why is that? Because after entering a new environment, life changes, everyone is busy with their own work.

When they first graduate, many people are still a bit unfamiliar with the new environment and are eager to share what they have experienced with old friends.

At the reunion, there was no bragging or comparison, everyone simply shared interesting stories they had encountered with their friends. The purpose of this reunion was simple and meaningful.

The class reunion after many years of graduation, students come to participate with sincere purpose, with the participation of teachers, is also a meaningful class reunion.

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In these reunions, not only classmates but also homeroom teachers participate, such as reunions after 10 or 20 years of graduation. At that time, everyone has their own career and life. And after many years, when they meet again, they will share and recall memories of their school days, remembering the beautiful memories of their youth.

In fact, no matter how many years it is after a class reunion, as long as everyone's purpose of attending the reunion is sincere, the reunion will definitely be meaningful.

A meaningful class reunion is not about who has achieved what, but what is important is that everyone has the same desire, which is to meet friends they haven't seen for a long time, not to discuss work or achievements, just to review and share beautiful memories of youth.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/di-hop-lop-bao-23-nguoi-tham-gia-toi-luc-di-an-lai-thanh-52-nguoi-an-xong-toi-roi-nhom-lop-172241204112856163.htm