Bitter mistakes that everyone can easily make

The man paid a heavy price for his mistake.

*Below is Mr. Tran's sharing, posted on Toutiao (China):

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In 2017, I was still working at the old company for 9 years, with total income including salary and bonus of about 300,000 NDT/year (~1 billion VND).

As many people say, people who have a good life like to attend class reunions. It's true that in the past, I didn't want to attend class reunions.

Besides the busy work factor and often working away from home, another reason is because I feel like I'm not good enough.

However, before Labor Day that year, I accepted the class president's invitation to attend the reunion. Because I thought my life was good enough now, that I could share it with everyone.

Talking about my job, at that time I felt I received good treatment from the company. Not only did I have a high income, but the company also created conditions for me to study more.

However, I had a grievance with this job. That was the company forced me to transfer my job, from project engineer to equipment operation and maintenance department. When I was transferred, I thought that the company did not respect me.

But I didn’t expect that this thought would be the beginning of a series of mistakes for me. At that time, the company’s business was going downhill, so the superiors had to consider laying off staff. My project engineering department was one of the units being considered for staff reduction.

At that time, the bosses thought that the operation and maintenance department always went along with the development of the company. Therefore, the decision to transfer me to a new department was to keep me from the company. But unfortunately, my vision at that time did not see this problem.

At that time, I was only 31 years old and confident that I could do anything if I tried hard. It was my self-aggrandizement and dissatisfaction with the company that made me delusional. From then on, I cherished the thought that if I just left my current company, I would definitely do better.

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Back to the reunion, it was the 10th anniversary of our graduation. Unlike the complaints about reunions online, my friends were all over 30, had families, knew how to control their emotions and care about other people's feelings.

No one intentionally brags about themselves or makes fun of their classmates. However, I understand that although they appear kind and gentle on the outside, they cannot help but secretly compare themselves.

Also because of the desire to assert myself, I shared about my job and salary with many classmates.

In return for receiving their compliments, I think more of myself as talented and deserving of a better life.

A moment later, when I was on the terrace, I ran into Li Xun. After a few words, Li Xun told me that his family had just opened a factory. He wanted to invite me to become an employee of the factory, with a salary of no less than 500,000 yuan/year (1.75 billion VND).

Li Xun is a classmate with a net worth of hundreds of millions of yuan. He is the closest person to me in college.

According to what he shared, after we graduated, he took over the business from his father. His father is a professor, the head of many leading scientific research projects in the country.

During our four years in college, Li Xun and I visited his father’s research institute many times. His family had a very strong network of connections in Nanjing. His grandfather was the director of a large hospital, and his grandfather was a retired military officer.

Having such a great classmate like Li Xun, I was very excited after he invited me to collaborate on his project. However, I have been working for more than 10 years, so I couldn't immediately accept his offer.

Seeing that I was still hesitant, after the party, he took me on a tour of the factory, so I trusted Li Huan even more. In addition, my growing dissatisfaction with my current company made me agree to work with Li Huan.

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However, the price was too high. Just one month after I started working at the new company, my situation suddenly changed. First, due to the land re-cultivation policy, the factory had to relocate its production workshop. Then, due to the company's supplier increasing prices, the profit from production decreased. Just two months after moving to the new company, I became unemployed and did not receive my full salary.

And in an effort to climb up to the new company, I completely quit my old company. That's why even if I ask to return to the old company now, the management won't accept it.

I went from a job with a salary of 300,000 yuan/year to being unemployed for a year. Now, when I look for a job, because I am over 30 years old, there are not many job opportunities left. I can only find a job with a salary of 5,000 yuan/month (~17.5 million VND), while still having to shoulder a mortgage and a family to take care of.

When I think about the past, I always blame myself for being a frog in a well. I only want to increase my own value without looking at the reality around me. When your life is going well, self-exaltation is the most taboo thing. When you are complacent and think that glory and wealth are within your reach, danger is not far from you.

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