GĐXH - Divorced, the new wife was surprised to discover her husband's huge 'black fund'...
A wife surnamed Zhang in Beijing, China, filed a lawsuit after their divorce, demanding a share of 60% of her husband surnamed Li's "black fund" after discovering that he had concealed his actual assets.
Housewife Truong filed a lawsuit after the divorce, demanding a share of 60% of her husband's "black fund" after discovering that he had hidden his actual assets. Illustrative photo
During their time together, the husband told this housewife that he could only save 100,000 NDT (about 343 million VND)/year.
However, the investigation concluded that Ly's annual income was more than 3 million NDT (about 10.3 billion VND).
Notably, the man withdrew cash several times before proceeding with the divorce proceedings.
The court concluded that a large amount of Mr. Li's "slush fund" actually belonged to both husband and wife and ruled that Ms. Zhang would receive 60% of the money. However, the exact amount was not disclosed.
Should men set up a secret fund in marriage?
Many people think that if you are married, you should share the same financial resources. There is no reason for one person to create a separate fund outside of the family's joint account.
Because doing so can easily make the person who set up the secret fund suspect of being dishonest and need to hide it from his wife (husband).
In fact, there are quite a few men who set up secret funds to support their mistresses outside.
According to CreditCards.com, more than a quarter of couples consider having a secret fund to be infidelity, worse than physical infidelity, but 44% of those surveyed admitted to having a secret fund. Illustration photo
According to Todd Christensen, a financial advisor at MoneyFit, a personal debt assistance service in Idaho (USA), some people set up slush funds because they don't trust their partner to manage it well or are worried that the relationship won't last.
However, there is a difference between managing your finances and completely hiding a large sum of money from your partner.
According to CreditCards, more than a quarter of couples consider having a secret fund to be infidelity, worse than having an affair. However, in the survey, 44% of respondents admitted to having a secret fund.
In marriage, husband and wife are often united financially, the number of couples who choose the "each person spends their own money" option is usually very small. However, if choosing the second option, couples often have to agree on some common spending items, such as investing in children, common living expenses, etc.
Every couple handles finances differently, says Carla Marie Manly, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist based in Sonoma County, California. However, the foundation of a marriage is trust and sharing. Therefore, couples should not hide their money and finances from each other.
“If it’s for a good reason, you should share it with your partner. They can understand and support your decision to maintain a separate account,” says Carla.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/nguoi-dan-ong-meo-mat-vi-phai-chia-so-tien-khung-che-giau-suot-bao-nam-khi-ly-hon-vo-172241118164958194.htm
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