My sister-in-law criticized my second grader for being so skinny that she was worse than a 5 year old. A few days later, it was her sister-in-law's turn to cry when she received bad news about her daughter.

I told my sister-in-law that children are innocent, don't make fun of them. Now that something has happened to her child, I don't know what to say...

My husband's family has 4 siblings. My husband is the third child, above him are 1 older brother and 1 older sister, and below him is the youngest daughter. Although I am the second daughter-in-law, I went to my husband's house first, while the eldest sister-in-law got married later.

My first son is 1 and a half years older than my sister-in-law's daughter. While he is gentle and patient, his cousin is very fierce. Not to say anything bad, but everyone says that my sister-in-law and her mother are just as fierce as each other. Even though she is so young, she bullies adults.

Unfortunately, my sister-in-law did not bother to correct her son. She showed disdain for anyone who gave her advice, and even argued back when my husband's parents spoke to her. She argued that "parents give birth to children, God gives them their personalities", so she should just leave her son alone and let him grow up.

The husband's brother was so weak that he didn't dare scold his wife and children. Before, everyone thought he was a spinster, over 30 years old and still single, so his parents-in-law said that he could marry any girl, as long as he got married and had a wife and children, that was good enough. Unexpectedly, he brought home a wife as fierce as a tiger, and even gave birth to a tiger cub!

Living together is unavoidable, my husband and I are not in a position to move out yet so we have to tell our son to stay away from his cousin. He is also very afraid of his cousin, he said every time Ms. Bong cries and throws a tantrum, he just wants to run away.

Many times, Bong would cause trouble and then blame my son. Even after being scolded by adults, the boy did not dare to talk back. He just sat in a corner feeling resentful. When I found out, I immediately talked to my sister-in-law to discipline Bong. However, she said, "There's no smoke without fire", implying that my son was also mischievous. I was tired of arguing because I knew my sister-in-law's stubborn nature was beyond cure.

No one has touched my sister-in-law recently, but she has started to show signs of wanting to cause trouble. Occasionally she teases me with a few sentences, like, "My sister-in-law is dressing nicely these days, she must be doing well in business, right? Can you lend me some money to buy Tet?" Then she asks how much money my husband and I saved at the end of the year, asks what lipstick I use that looks so good, and then asks for the lipstick and perfume I use because she likes it (?!?)

Having nothing to say, my sister-in-law turned to look at my son. She shook her head and said he was too skinny. I told her he was only about 20kg, and she immediately said, "It's my fault." She said I didn't love my son, so I let him be "skinny as a stick", didn't know how to raise him, didn't feed him enough, ate only cheap, unnutritious junk, was in 2nd grade but didn't weigh as much as a 5-year-old like her son, etc.

In the end, my sister-in-law nagged a lot. I wanted to respect her but couldn’t because she was so rude. She was so unreasonable that she cursed my child, saying that being so skinny would definitely get sick. I was so angry that I didn’t want to listen anymore, and reminded her to be careful with her mouth because talking nonsense could easily bring disaster. Why would she suddenly badmouth an innocent, naive child? There were many reasons for being skinny, not because I neglected to take care of my child.

The child is still healthy and smart. The doctor said everything is fine, there is no serious illness, and he still eats well and healthily. I am his mother and I am not worried. I don't understand why my sister-in-law has to say such harsh words to the child?

A few days later, when I picked up my daughter from school and came home, I suddenly saw my mother-in-law patting my sister-in-law on the shoulder to comfort her as she sat crying in the kitchen. I asked and found out that recently my sister-in-law had noticed that Bong was constantly thirsty and urinating a lot, so she quickly took her daughter to the doctor. The doctor said that she had severe diabetes, the cause of which was her unhealthy diet and lifestyle.

Just yesterday she praised her child for being chubby and criticized my child for being skinny, today she regretted crying for letting Bong eat too much. Especially Bong's love for sweets, everyone around advised her not to let her eat too much but her sister-in-law didn't listen. Now the consequences have come, the child has to live with that disease for the rest of her life.

However, the sister-in-law still did not admit her mistake in raising her grandchild, she turned around and blamed the grandparents for spoiling her grandchild too much (?!?). My mother-in-law was shocked after hearing what her daughter-in-law said. I also did not know what to do to make my sister-in-law wake up. How could someone be so stubborn!

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