The issue of whether it is Tet for the paternal or maternal side is an eternal problem that puts many families in a dilemma.
People often say that love and marriage are very different. If you want to know if a man truly loves you, look at how he treats you after you are married. My case is a proof.
My name is Peng Tan, I am 28 years old. Before getting married, my husband and I were classmates in college. From the time we fell in love until we became husband and wife, our relationship has always been very good. My close friends are always jealous and they always say that I am very lucky to have such a thoughtful husband. Indeed, I feel a bit lucky because since we got married, my husband has never disappointed me.
This year, I want my whole family to go to my maternal grandparents' house to celebrate Tet after 2 years of celebrating Tet at my paternal grandparents' house. Because of the pandemic, my child is still young, so I miss my family very much. Although I have another brother and my parents are well taken care of, this Tet, I really want to take my husband and child to my maternal grandparents' house.
I made this wish clear to my husband and was really happy because he always supported all my intentions. Without me having to say anything, he took the initiative to buy the train tickets and planned everything. When he gave me the train tickets and said: "This Tet, our family will go to my parents' house" , I immediately hugged him and burst into tears.
What had to happen had happened, the joy did not last long, I thought that my mother-in-law would allow me to go home to visit. Unexpectedly, she became furious and said: "A married daughter must celebrate Tet at her husband's house, that is natural" . Not only that, she also told my husband: "Your wife cannot go to her parents' house to celebrate Tet. Don't bring shame to this family just because of having such an etiquette-less daughter-in-law!".
Hearing my mother-in-law say that, all my hopes were dashed and I felt very sad, no longer excited about Tet.
Knowing the situation, my husband immediately explained to his mother: "Mom, I am your precious son, and my wife is also the precious gem of her parents. Moreover, since my wife gave birth to me, she has always been at her husband's house and has not returned to her parents' house. I promised my grandparents that this year's Tet holiday, I will return home with my wife. I have decided, this is my wish. Don't blame her!"
Hearing her son's confident declaration, my mother-in-law was taken aback by the surprise. In the end, although she was not very happy, she did not oppose the couple's decision anymore.
Thinking back, I realized my friends were right. A man who loves you from the bottom of his heart will always pamper you, be considerate, and give you all the best things because he wants you to be happy. Even if his family objects, he will still resolutely fight to the end.
Now, I feel very secure and happy because I have met the right person. Marriage is a long journey, I hope that all girls will meet a good man, so that they will not be lonely, not feel lost in their husband's family.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/cam-con-dau-ve-nha-ngoai-an-tet-phan-ung-cua-con-trai-khien-me-chong-chung-hung-172250108151930293.htm
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