Old age, don't put too much emphasis on money, this is more important

Báo Gia đình và Xã hộiBáo Gia đình và Xã hội13/02/2025

At the age of nearly 70, Ms. Liu from China decided to live with her son and maintain a very good and harmonious family relationship.


Everyone has their own decisions when they get older. Many people choose to live alone to be independent, free, and not dependent on their children.

Many others want to live with their children to feel the warm, intimate family atmosphere. This was also Mrs. Liu's decision and she has never regretted it.

When they were young, Ms. Liu and her husband both had stable jobs and good incomes, so their finances were quite stable.

For many years, she focused on developing her career and enjoying a full, peaceful life. People around her looked at Ms. Liu with admiration and a bit of jealousy.

When they were in their 60s, Mrs. Liu and her husband often spent time taking care of themselves, growing vegetables in the morning and enjoying tea in the afternoon.

However, while the good times were going on, Ms. Liu’s husband suddenly fell seriously ill. A few years later, this man passed away, leaving only the old lady in her 70s living in the small house.

Missing her husband and not being used to living alone, Ms. Liu's health has seriously declined since her husband's death. She even fell into negative emotions after this incident.

Gần 70 tuổi, lương hưu 40 triệu đồng/tháng, cụ bà đưa 27 triệu đồng cho con trai: Tuổi già, đừng đặt nặng chữ tiền, điều này quan trọng hơn cả - Ảnh 2.

Ms. Liu was originally a cheerful person, but due to an incident, she fell ill. Illustration photo: Internet

One day, Ms. Liu's son returned home to visit and was shocked to see that his mother's health and spirit were not good. Because Ms. Liu hid her illness, her son did not know anything.

At this time, the U70 woman's son proposed that he would soon take her to live with him. At first, Ms. Luu refused.

She did not want her children to be a burden to her. However, her son tried his best to advise her with sincere words. Therefore, Ms. Liu agreed to live with her children and grandchildren in Shanghai.

Half a month later, the nearly 70-year-old woman officially moved in with her son. When she first arrived, Mrs. Liu was extremely surprised by her children's living conditions.

Her son and daughter-in-law currently live in a small apartment with only basic furniture.

Even though they still had to pay the mortgage every month, they didn't have much money left. However, the son insisted on welcoming Ms. Liu to live with him, regardless of the money.

Thinking of her son's kindness and filial piety, the woman was deeply moved. She realized her son's feelings and responsibility towards her.

Whether rich or poor, her son never let Mrs. Liu suffer or live alone.

Seeing her children's hardship, Ms. Liu came up with an idea. Every month, this woman receives about 12,000 NDT (40 million VND).

With this amount of money, she cannot use it all, usually saving it for difficult times. Now living with her son, she gives him 8,000 NDT (equivalent to 27 million VND) to help him cover living expenses.

This money was for her living expenses, medicine, and also for her children. At first, Ms. Liu's son refused to accept it.

This person insisted that he could still support his mother without her contributing to living expenses. However, after listening to Mrs. Liu's advice, her son listened to her.

Gần 70 tuổi, lương hưu 40 triệu đồng/tháng, cụ bà đưa 27 triệu đồng cho con trai: Tuổi già, đừng đặt nặng chữ tiền, điều này quan trọng hơn cả - Ảnh 4.

The old lady is loved and respected by her children. Illustration photo: Internet

At nearly 70 years old, Mrs. Liu lives a very comfortable, joyful and happy life. Every day she plays with her grandchildren, helps her children prepare meals and lives a leisurely and relaxed life.

Since moving in with her son, she is no longer lonely but clearly feels the warm and deep family affection.

She and her children respect each other very much and always share their difficulties and problems with each other. Therefore, the family atmosphere is always happy.

When we get older, money is not the most important thing to us. A warm, harmonious, and always happy family is the most precious thing to each person.

Huyen Giang



Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/gan-70-tuoi-luong-huu-40-trieu-dong-thang-cu-ba-dua-27-trieu-dong-cho-con-trai-tuoi-gia-dung-dat-nang-chu-tien-dieu-nay-quan-trong-hon-ca-172250211100409286.htm

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