Freshman Duong Thi Kim Duyen: Grandmother named her so that the word Duyen would anchor her in life.

Báo Tuổi TrẻBáo Tuổi Trẻ09/10/2024


Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 1.

Duong Thi Kim Duyen, a new student at Quy Nhon University - Photo: TRAN MAI

Duong Thi Kim Duyen, a freshman at Quy Nhon University, has a tragic situation. But the girl accepts her fate and moves forward.

Mrs. Le Thi Ngo

Eight months after giving birth, Duyen's mother fell ill and passed away. I continued to raise her and thought her birth was fate, so I named her Kim Duyen.

Here is your child, what is his name?

At noon in early October, Mrs. Le Thi Ngo (85 years old, An Bang residential group, Song Ve town, Tu Nghia district, Quang Ngai) was alone cooking. She said that since Duyen went to school, the house had become empty. One day, when she woke up, she called out to her grandchild, then remembered that Duyen had left home to go to school more than a month ago.

She had 12 children, but only Duyen's mother was abnormal. Every day she wandered around the village, and Mrs. Ngo had to work hard to find her.

18 years ago, Mrs. Ngo saw her child's belly growing bigger, she thought she must be sick so she took her to the doctor, the doctor said she was pregnant. "I was shocked when I heard what the doctor said. How could she be crazy to be pregnant?" Mrs. Ngo confided. At this point, Mrs. Ngo sighed, old age makes sitting for a long time tiring, she quickly lay down on the hammock, rubbing her forehead.

The day Duyen was born, Mrs. Ngo could never forget. She held her newborn grandchild and said to Duyen's mother: "Here's your baby, what should I name him?". Duyen's mother looked at her in bewilderment, Mrs. Ngo understood that she could not "awaken" her child's spirit.

"Eight months after giving birth, Duyen's mother fell ill and passed away. I continued to raise her and thought her birth was fate, so I named her Kim Duyen," said Ms. Ngo.

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 2.

Mrs. Ngo is 85 years old, she hopes Duyen will have a good life - Photo: TRAN MAI

Two special characters at the scholarship awarding ceremony of "Tiep suc den truong" in Thua Thien Hue: Duong Thi Kim Duyen and Nguyen Duc - Performed by: NHAT LINH - TRAN MAI - NHA CHAN - MAI HUYEN - TON VU

My niece is understanding and a good student, secretary of the Youth Union branch.

When there are vegetables, we eat vegetables, when there is fish sauce, we eat fish sauce. Grandma and grandchild depend on each other. Duyen grew up very understanding, always helping her grandmother with everything. Besides going to school, when she has free time, Duyen looks for extra jobs, from serving at coffee shops, milk tea shops, to crocheting flowers, shipping goods, selling clothes...

There was a day when the family had no money to go to the market, and her grandmother was sick and had no money to buy medicine. The feeling of helplessness overwhelmed Duyen, and on the way home from school, tears just kept flowing. She consoled herself, reassured herself, and looked for a job to earn money.

Duyen was a good student, bringing home certificates of merit every year, which made Mrs. Ngo very happy. Her academic achievements for 12 consecutive years were excellent and advanced. She was an excellent student at the school level in history, geography and physics for all 3 years of high school. Duyen was also the secretary of the Youth Union with excellent achievements in the Youth Union movement at high school and was admitted to the Party at school.

But the day Duyen passed the university entrance exam, she was stuck, not knowing where to get money to take care of her grandchild.

Sometimes Mrs. Ngo said: "Why don't you quit school and find a job? I'm old and don't have enough money." Duyen begged: "Please help me borrow money to pay for my tuition. When I go to school, I'll try to work part-time to support myself." She advised her to quit school, but Mrs. Ngo confessed that even if Duyen really quit, she wouldn't let that happen.

"Before Duyen went to school, I borrowed money from the neighborhood and my children to help pay her tuition," said Ms. Ngo.

Duyen went to school, her 85-year-old grandmother lived alone in a small house in the countryside. Recently, the weather changed and she fell ill and could not breathe. She was worried that in 4 years, Duyen would graduate and would not be alive to see her grandchild's university degree.

"I recently called to ask if my nephew still had money, and he said he did. But I'm planning to pay tuition and rent, so where would I get the money? He probably knows I'm old and can't make any money, so he said he still has money so I don't have to worry," Mrs. Ngo mused.

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 3.

Mrs. Ngo is worried that she will no longer be alive to see Duyen get her university degree - Photo: TRAN MAI

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 4.

Duyen often calls her grandmother. She worries that she is home alone and has no one by her side when the weather changes - Photo: TRAN MAI

Not afraid of pressure, just pray that she lives long enough to take care of her

In Quy Nhon City, Duyen rented a room with a friend. If she could arrange her time, Duyen would work part-time to cover all her tuition fees. Entering university, Duyen was also trusted as the class's Youth Union secretary.

Duyen said that she knew her situation well so she wanted to study pedagogy to save on tuition. But this year the pedagogy score was too high so Duyen chose economics - Quy Nhon University.

"I think all the difficulties I've gone through are big enough for me to face the pressures of the next four years of school. At least I'm older now and can do more work. As long as I try my best, no difficulty can stop me," Duyen confided.

"She is the pillar of my life. I hope she stays healthy until I graduate and find a job to take care of her. She has raised me all my life, I hope God will give me the opportunity to take care of her," Duyen said.

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 5.

The university days began with hardship, but Duyen was determined to stay in school - Photo: TRAN MAI

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 6.

Grandmother and grandchild, two worried moods for each other. The common point is to hope Duyen has a good future, a happy life - Photo: TRAN MAI

I want to be strong like the characters of School Support

Talking about the Tuoi Tre Newspaper's "Tiep suc den truong" scholarship, Duyen said it was like a support that helped her stand up when she fell. Especially when she was stuck in grades 11 and 12, Duyen thought about stopping studying and going to work. But then Duyen remembered the characters of the "Tiep suc den truong" scholarship, remembered the students who rose from poverty and succeeded, and she overcame her negative thoughts.

During the scholarship award ceremony on October 9, Kim Duyen had never tasted her mother's milk since she was born. Her grandmother was the one who raised Duyen, acting as both a father and a mother to take care of Duyen in life.

"What I want most is to succeed soon, graduate and have a job to support my grandmother. She is the motivation for me to overcome all difficulties," Duyen said.

The program gave Duyen a surprise gift, which was a clip recording Duyen's grandmother's message to her granddaughter. Seeing her grandmother's gentle figure, Duyen burst into tears. The host could not hold back his tears either, hugged the little girl, and encouraged her.

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên: Bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 8.

Kim Duyen shares at the scholarship award ceremony - Photo: NHAT LINH

Message from the grandmother of new student Duong Thi Kim Duyen

Invite you to join the School Support Program

Tuoi Tre Newspaper's 2024 School Support Program launched on August 8, expected to award 1,100 scholarships with a total cost of more than 20 billion VND (15 million VND for new students with difficulties, 20 special scholarships worth 50 million VND/scholarship throughout 4 years of study and learning equipment, gifts...).

With the motto "No young person can go to school because of poverty", "If new students encounter difficulties, there is Tuoi Tre " - as a commitment to support new students in the past 20 years of Tuoi Tre .

The program received contributions and support from the "Accompanying Farmers" Fund - Binh Dien Fertilizer Joint Stock Company, Vinacam Education Promotion Fund - Vinacam Group Joint Stock Company and the clubs "Nghia tinh Quang Tri", "Nghia tinh Phu Yen"; the clubs "Supporting School" Thua Thien Hue, Quang Nam - Da Nang, Tien Giang - Ben Tre, Quang Ngai and the Tien Giang - Ben Tre Business Association in Ho Chi Minh City, the German - Vietnamese Mutual Aid and Cooperation Association (VSW), Nam Long Company, Nestlé Vietnam Co., Ltd. ... along with businesses, philanthropists and a large number of readers of Tuoi Tre newspaper.

Businesses and readers can support scholarships for new students by transferring to Tuoi Tre newspaper account:

113000006100 VietinBank, Branch 3, Ho Chi Minh City.

Content: Support "Support to school" for new students or specify the province/city that you want to support.

Readers and businesses abroad can transfer money to Tuoi Tre newspaper:

USD account 007.137.0195.845 Ho Chi Minh City Foreign Trade Bank;

EUR account 007.114.0373.054 Foreign Trade Bank, Ho Chi Minh City

with Swift code BFTVVNVX007.

Content: Support "Support to school" for new students or specify the province/city that you want to support.

In addition to sponsoring scholarships, readers can support learning equipment, accommodation, jobs... for new students.

Tân SV Quảng Ngãi Dương Thị Kim Duyên - bà ngoại đặt tên để chữ Duyên neo cháu với đời - Ảnh 8.


Source: https://tuoitre.vn/tan-sinh-vien-duong-thi-kim-duyen-ba-ngoai-dat-ten-de-chu-duyen-neo-chau-voi-doi-2024100717142225.htm

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