Support each other to progress together

Ngoc Lam and her husband always accompany and support each other in work and family. In the photo: Ngoc Lam and her husband participate in the contest to display skillful products to celebrate Vietnamese Family Day. Photo: Provided by the character

In addition to her position as Chairwoman of the Women's Union of Nhon Nghia Commune, Phong Dien District, Ms. Ngoc Lam is known by many local people as one of the typical examples of a happy family. Ms. Ngoc Lam confided that in order to do well in the Union's work as well as take care of her family, she received great attention and support from her husband and her paternal and maternal families.

In 2009, Ms. Ngoc Lam and Mr. Thanh Hieu got married. For more than 15 years, Mr. Hieu has always created conditions for her to complete her university degree and attend many classes and training courses to improve her qualifications in all aspects. When mentioning her husband, Ms. Lam's eyes are filled with happiness. Ms. Lam confided: "I feel lucky to have a husband who always cares for and supports me in my work, shares housework, and takes care of the children. My happiness is that my husband and I give each other the best things, starting with very simple things, such as caring about each other's meals and sleep; treating each other sincerely; doing housework together, taking care of the children... These things, although small, help to strengthen the couple's relationship." During the start-up phase of opening a banh tet bakery, Ms. Lam also received great encouragement from her husband. Seeing his wife's hard work, Mr. Hieu proactively took on the responsibility of designing brand labels, promoting, delivering goods... From understanding and caring for each other, Ms. Lam's family became more loving and connected.

After more than 10 years of marriage, Bich Ngoc and her husband in Cai Rang district have two beautiful and adorable little angels. Ngoc is a doctor, her husband is a lecturer at a university. Both share the same philosophy of constantly striving to develop themselves and their careers. Ngoc said: “My husband and I are studying for two university degrees and postgraduate degrees to improve our qualifications. To balance family and career, we have decided to share the housework together. Every day, after work, my husband does not hesitate to cook and clean the house with me... When I am not at home, my husband can also “handle” all the big and small things. This helps me feel secure in my work and study.”

Ms. Lan Anh in Ninh Kieu district is also happy when her husband cares and supports her in every aspect. Ms. Lan Anh said: “Previously, I worked as an accountant at a small company. Since giving birth, I quit my job to stay home and take care of the housework. After more than 6 years at home, I longed to go to work and change myself for the better. Therefore, when my child grew up, I decided to go to bartending and cooking school to start a coffee shop. At that time, both parents tried to stop me because they were afraid that I would not be able to manage it. Only my husband enthusiastically encouraged me and even took me to centers to learn the trade.” For more than a year, the coffee shop has been in operation and has a stable number of customers. Although busy, Ms. Lan Anh is very happy that her husband understands and shares with her and has more income to take care of the family. “Every day, after work, my husband comes home early to help me take care of the children. When he has free time, he also does not hesitate to go to the store to park cars and deliver goods to customers. This support gives me more motivation to try harder,” Lan Anh confided.

The stories and situations above are all different, but they have in common the happiness of having a partner accompany and support one's personal development. According to psychological experts, family happiness is built and developed based on respect, equality, responsibility, companionship, sharing, and love between husband and wife. In many cases, women have husbands with an open mind who support their wives in their personal development, so their married life becomes more harmonious and happier. At the same time, regardless of their position or job, women should still be the ones to "keep the fire burning", fulfilling their duties as wives and mothers. That is also an important foundation for building a happy home.

Kien Quoc

Source: https://baocantho.com.vn/ho-tro-nhau-cung-tien-bo-a185342.html