Children’s “bad habits” may be a sign of high IQ. Although parents worry and get frustrated, many behaviors that adults consider inappropriate may actually reflect a child’s creativity, imagination and thinking ability.
According to famous psychology professor Li Meijin - Deputy Director of the Legal Psychology Professional Committee of the Chinese Psychological Association, some children who seem to be "bad-tempered" actually have high IQs. Parents should not rush to scold them, because it can destroy their inner enthusiasm and affect their brain development.
Meanwhile, Meyer, a neuroscience professor at Harvard University, also said that children with high IQs often show some common characteristics before the age of 6. If parents guide them well, their children's IQs can increase significantly. However, many parents do not realize this, so they unintentionally hinder their children's intellectual development.
Children talk too much
Talkative children are often outgoing, optimistic and have good language skills. They are confident in communicating and have the ability to connect with friends easily. They are often the ones who initiate conversations, creating a fun and friendly atmosphere in the classroom.
However, this liveliness can also make it difficult for children to control themselves. It is just that children are temporarily not good at self-control, cannot control their desire to talk so they keep talking. This can lead to children not paying attention to the lecture, causing a loss of concentration. This makes many parents upset.
Although talkative children have demonstrated superior language skills, they must also be taught to assess situations and know when to speak and when not to speak so as not to bore or annoy others.
Of course, parents need to respect their children's wishes and let them talk happily. Create a good language environment for children so that they can speak more politely. Finally, parents can expand their children's knowledge and improve their logical ability by letting them read, talk to others, debate, etc. to make their speech more attractive and logical.
Stubborn and unwilling to listen to advice
Each child has his or her own personality. According to psychological personality traits, stubborn and disobedient children are mostly hot-tempered. These children are very independent and have clear goals. Parents cannot directly force their children to develop in the direction they want.
Parents must first put themselves in the right position and cannot order their children from a superior position. This will make them more rebellious. Parents can communicate with their children as friends and respect their children's wishes.
Or destroy toys, throw things
When children reach a certain stage, they suddenly become very fond of destroying toys and throwing things. If parents do not allow it, they will throw even harder. Many times, parents cannot help but feel angry when they see the “mess everywhere” in the house, even the newly bought toy is broken.
Professor Meyer believes that parents should get used to children taking apart and throwing things, because this is actually an important lesson in exploration, children use this to improve their awareness and satisfy their curiosity.
Through the act of breaking and throwing, children learn that objects have different textures and weights. When they land, they will make sounds, have different shapes and go in different directions. To complete this action, children's eyes, brain, hands, etc. need to coordinate with each other to practice good body coordination.
Especially between the ages of 1 and 3, children are learning about the world by “destroying”. Therefore, parents do not need to worry too much when their children are mischievous, but can guide them in this way.
First, let your child clean up the mess himself. Second, parents can participate in their children's activities, such as when they take apart something. During the process, parents should ask their children questions, promote their thinking ability, and improve their thinking ability.
Of course, the most important thing is that parents themselves must maintain a good attitude and not scold their children for "destruction", otherwise it will hinder their ability to explore and make children gradually lose their curiosity about the world around them.
Playful, parents call but do not care
Many parents get frustrated when they see their children playing, even reminding them but the children ignore them. But in fact, that is because the children are highly focused. When children are playing or doing any activities such as reading, drawing,... parents should not disturb them.
Concentration is a solid foundation that motivates people to achieve their future. Let children try, do not interrupt them when they are concentrating. If parents see their children are too absorbed in playing, you can limit the time, while ensuring concentration to reduce dependence on games.
Like to retell what others say
Some children may always repeat what others have just said or what advertisements they have just seen. Parents may feel that their children are not innovative and why they always repeat what others have said.
But think about it another way, the child's ability to repeat these words simply shows that he has an amazing memory. And as he continues to repeat other people's words, his memory gets better and better.
Parents do not need to prevent their children from doing this, but can guide them to express their thoughts and understanding of these words after retelling. This not only trains their memory but also improves their thinking ability.
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