Married the wrong playboy wife, I suddenly became a single father

(Dan Tri) - When I realized my mistake, it was too late. Now I have dragged my parents into the consequences with me, I regret it so much.

I met Dung in a group of friends, not really love, mostly because everyone paired us up. After that, I naturally accepted because Dung was pretty and had a personality. Dung liked me because of my rich family label, my open-minded and carefree personality. One time when we went out drinking, we got drunk and crossed the line.

When Dung announced her pregnancy, I wasn't as happy as people often describe, but I also didn't intend to run away like many worthless men. So we talked about responsibilities and discussed marriage.

Basically, we are both adults now, if we get pregnant, we will get married. It is this simple way of thinking that has led us to the complicated situation we are in now.

We are completely unsuitable as a couple. Our thoughts, ideals, and personalities cannot stand each other. Being together is just a matter of arguing and discord. My wife doesn't like doing housework. She constantly blames me for getting her pregnant, making her feel suffocated and unable to go anywhere. She looks ugly.

I was too hasty in getting married (Illustration: Sina).

I am fond of friends and companions, but my wife keeps me from going anywhere, which makes me irritable. But partly because I feel the responsibility is mine, and partly because I want to be a man, I put up with my wife.

But my wife relied on her pregnancy fatigue, all the housework, cooking, laundry were done by me. My parents lived nearby but I didn't dare tell them because I wanted to save face with them. However, my wife became more and more unreasonable.

After giving birth, Dung announced that she wanted to wean her child so that she could go out to work and not be accused of being dependent on her husband. I did not agree with her weaning her child so early. But somehow, after a few days, Dung announced that she had lost her milk supply and did not need to wean her child. Her only choice was to drink homemade formula.

Dung asked me for money to invest in a clothing business with her friend. After a few days, she said she had closed the store because of disagreements and slow customers, so she dissolved the business. She had no more capital and no job, but Dung didn't seem bored. Leaving me to take care of her child, she signed up for this and that gym class to get back in shape, buy clothes, and hang out with friends like when she was young.

I couldn't take care of my child, so I had to shamefully ask my grandparents nearby to help. My parents were very sad, but because they loved their child and grandchildren, they didn't want to say anything, afraid that my husband and I would have conflicts and arguments.

After a few days, Dung came back to the table and asked her to try running her own business. Dung said she had a source of goods in China, the goods were cheap and had nice designs so she would definitely be able to do business.

Listening to my wife's analysis, I found it reasonable. Her knowledge was nothing but clothes and skirts, no degree, no expertise, plus a failed business, now she has learned a lesson, no worries about not being successful.

I borrowed more money from my parents and gave it to my wife to do business. From that day on, I didn't know how much money I made or how much profit I made from the business. I only saw my wife going out all day, on the phone all the time, as if she had completely forgotten that she had a child.

I have to admit, my wife is getting more and more beautiful, no one can tell she just gave birth. But those are the compliments from outsiders, but I am fed up, looking at other people's wives makes me jealous. Other people take care of their husbands, children, cook, do laundry, take care of the family, but my wife goes out all day, wears makeup, smells good, shops, goes to bars without caring about anyone.

I felt embarrassed and ashamed in front of my parents. When I introduced Dung to them, they advised me to think carefully before making a decision on this important matter of my life, but I insisted on taking responsibility. Now I can't tell my wife, causing chaos and discord in the family, my parents can't eat or sleep because their daughter-in-law only knows how to have fun, and their grandchildren are fussy and sick. I really feel sorry for my grandparents.

I used to be a playboy, but now I have to postpone all my friends, come home from work and have to take care of the baby, cook, do the laundry, and help my parents take care of the baby. Sometimes, while feeding my baby, I bitterly realize that I am known as a wife but I am no different from a single father raising a child.

I am angry with my wife but I do not have the right to ask for a divorce at this time because my child is under 12 months old. Right now, I really feel extremely bad and stuck.

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