GĐXH - The lovemaking was going on passionately when the atmosphere suddenly became stagnant when the husband accidentally called another woman's name.
The shocking incident just happened in the resort city of Baguio, Luzon Island, Philippines.
A 55-year-old woman cut off her sleeping 58-year-old husband’s genitals, all because he accidentally called out another woman’s name while they were having sex.
According to Philippine media, before being intimate, the couple drank quite a lot of alcohol.
When love was at its most passionate, the atmosphere suddenly became stagnant when the husband accidentally called another woman's name, leading to a fierce argument.
Husband had his 'genitals' cut off for calling another woman's name while making love to his wife. Illustrative photo
Afterwards, they went to bed together. While the husband quickly fell asleep, the wife, under the influence of anger and alcohol, lost control and cut off her husband's genitals.
Baguio City police quickly arrested the wife after receiving the report, while the husband was taken to the hospital for treatment.
"If I can't use it, other women can't either, he can't enjoy it either, you scum" - the wife testified at the police station.
The wife also accused her husband of not only having an affair but also of regularly abusing her, saying that she committed the crime out of excessive jealousy and drunkenness and without any premeditation.
According to information from the authorities, this woman will be prosecuted for assault and causing injury.
From this case, the city police called on the community to raise awareness about domestic violence and the importance of building healthy family relationships.
5 ways to help you take the initiative when you discover your spouse is cheating
Psychologists and sociologists stress the importance of resolving conflicts peacefully and seeking professional help when facing marital problems. Illustration photo
Accept what happened
No matter how much you complain or feel pain or hurt, the incident or problem has happened. Whether you like it or not, you cannot change that fact. Accept it so you have the energy to do other things.
I know it's very difficult to do at this early stage, but if you don't do it, sooner or later you will still have to face it. No matter how painful it is, you still have to let go and change.
In the beginning, don't think about anything else, don't try to struggle, resisting the pain will only make you hurt more. You can do nothing, put your whole body into a state of emptiness, stillness to focus on resting and relaxing. In the short term, it will take 1 day, in the long term, it will take 2-3 days, your emotions will be better.
Find the root cause
Review the overall problem, see when your problem or situation started, how it progressed, whether you accidentally overlooked, failed to observe, or failed to grasp small daily changes... Reviewing the problem will help you have a comprehensive view of things, events, and objects.
For example, if your husband had an affair a few months ago, were there any distance or conflicts between you and your spouse? What strange signs did he show? How long has it been since you and your spouse lost contact and stopped communicating with each other?
Then find the root cause of the problem you are facing, because everything that comes to you is definitely just the result, and you have sown the previous causes, so what is that cause, good or bad, find out and list it in detail and specifically. Because which bad cause will tell us which new good cause we need to sow.
Take responsibility for yourself
No matter what happens to you, you are responsible for your life, no one can do it for you.
Even if the external object (external circumstances) is a factor contributing to your problem, it cannot make you suffer, you only suffer if you allow it to. They are at fault and you are at fault.
Take responsibility for your own mistakes, you are the cause and solution to all your problems.
Choose a clear and correct goal
What kind of person do you want to become in the future? Determine clearly, and ask yourself if that goal is worth it.
If you choose the goal "husband loves you" or "husband returns to you", it is also the husband's goal, starting from the husband, not you.
Getting involved with someone who is not in your control, then repeating the same painful refrain. When the things you want are not achieved, you think about what will happen to you.
So, change your goal. Instead of choosing "your husband loves you", choose "you love your husband" which makes more sense because it is your goal. Choosing that goal will let you know what you need to do to love your husband and the results will change. So choose your own goal, starting from "ME".
Determination to act and perseverance
Turn your thoughts into action. Be persistent and work hard. Find at least 10 reasons why you should change and do it.
The more reasons you have, the greater your determination will be. Write it down on paper and stick it in places where you often see it to gain spirit and energy whenever you feel discouraged.
Nothing can defeat you when you are strong inside. Always accepting to face difficulties and overcome challenges will help you grow up with strong inner strength. Overcoming difficulties is the only way to increase your inner strength. So instead of continuing to complain, blame, and blame, take back control of your life from the hands of others.
You accept to be weak, miserable, passive, dependent on others or take control of your own life. It all depends entirely on you.
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