According to Sohu, Ms. Ngoc Anh (45 years old, living in Nam Luc Bao, Son Tay, China) recently had a heated argument with her husband, Mr. Tuan Van. During the argument, Mr. Tuan Van could not contain his anger and beat his wife.
The couple fought so loudly that the police had to intervene. Ms. Ngoc Anh and Mr. Tuan Van then calmly sat down to talk things out. It is known that the couple has been married for more than 20 years and has two daughters together. The eldest daughter is currently in college, while the second daughter is just over 10 years old.
Regarding beating his wife, Tuan Van said that he had drunk too much that day and was extremely tired. When he got home, he just wanted to go to sleep. However, Ngoc Anh refused to let her husband sleep and stayed by his side, constantly criticizing and scolding him. Tuan Van added that Ngoc Anh had recently had a bad attitude, which made him extremely upset and frustrated.
Hearing her husband's accusations, Ms. Ngoc Anh resentfully said she felt she was no longer loved and trusted by her husband.
The couple calmly sat down and talked to resolve the problems.
A few months ago, she even discovered that her husband had hidden a secret fund under the table, which was four checks worth about 30,000 NDT (nearly 105 million VND). When Ngoc Anh brought the checks to her husband, he refused to explain anything. She was so angry that she decided to confiscate all the money.
A few months later, she discovered that her husband had secretly transferred 7,000 yuan (about 24.8 million VND) to her mother-in-law's WeChat account. Ngoc Anh could not accept her husband's act of hiding the money. According to Ngoc Anh, the reason her husband hid the money was definitely to give it to another woman, otherwise why would he have done it secretly without letting his wife know.
Only then did Tuan Van open up and tell the reason why he hid the money. It turned out that their relationship was opposed by Ngoc Anh's family from the beginning. However, because they truly loved each other, Ngoc Anh and Tuan Van were determined to get married.
However, money issues caused the couple's relationship to start to crack right after they got married. Because her husband's family did not give their daughter-in-law a set of gold jewelry as tradition, Ngoc Anh felt very upset, which eventually led to an argument. Because of this, Ngoc Anh immediately asked for a divorce from Tuan Van.
Every time they argued, Ngoc Anh threatened to divorce, making Tuan Van feel insecure, worried day and night, afraid that one day his wife would abandon him and he would not know what to do. Therefore, he began to secretly hide his own money in case of an unexpected event. After many years of living together, Tuan Van gradually felt more secure because he saw his wife wholeheartedly taking care of the children and the family, not hesitating to give her his salary card to keep.
In early 2020, when he saw his sister-in-law and her husband buying a house and spending tens of thousands of yuan on renovations, Mr. Tuan Van suspected that his wife had taken the house money to give to his sister, so he was very angry. The fear of being abandoned by his wife again came back, causing Mr. Tuan Van to continue hiding his secret fund, in case his wife took all the money in the house.
Living together for more than 20 years, Ngoc Anh and Tuan Van lacked trust in each other, did not know how to communicate and discuss when problems arose, which led to a rift in their relationship. After listening to each other's confessions, Tuan Van and Ngoc Anh were extremely remorseful, promised not to hide their personal feelings, to proactively talk when problems arose, and to find a solution together.
Happy marriage requires mutual care and sharing
A happy marriage does not happen by accident. It requires both people to take responsibility for building and nurturing the relationship.
Caring and sharing are prerequisites if you want to create complete happiness. Illustration photo
Care and share
In marriage, caring and sharing create a strong bond between the two. With a busy life, many couples are so engrossed in work that they do not spend much time with their family. This can easily lead to members feeling lonely, isolated, and lost...
So, arrange your work to spend more time talking and confiding so that everyone feels cared for when they return home. Each person should take advantage of dinner, outings or a trip together… to help everyone understand and love each other more.
Learn to listen
Conflicts in marriage are inevitable. However, if both parties know how to give their opinions gently and sincerely, the story will not be pushed too far. Harsh words only make married life more stressful and tiring. When someone hurts you, you feel very sad, so there is no reason for you to make the person you are living with for the rest of your life sad.
Keep your marriage fresh
Don't let a peaceful marriage make your life boring and dull. You should choose a sweet and romantic attitude like before marriage. Besides, learn about each other's activities, thereby creating a common interest to open up opportunities to share and love more.
Financially strong
Finance is not everything but it plays a significant role in a happy marriage. If finances are strong, family members will have the conditions to develop in the best environment. Besides, ensuring finances also helps avoid unnecessary conflicts in marriage, thereby keeping the family happy.
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